am I really that ugly, or is it I don't have a cool enought job or something?? I'm having NO luck on this, or any site, or really in person. Im starting to just give up.I never get a reply after sending mail, and have really no mutual matches. Is it something in my profile, or is it just me.

Get involved in the forums as much as possible and get yourself exposed. You will get tons of responses!

I'm cool

you are not ugly or "uncool" you are just new- get involved in the forums and let everyone get to know you and your personality.

you will meet new friends and maybe "the one"

just give it some time

welcome to the club...we`re all in the same boat,..why do you think we`re here,...

and that`s when you`ll meet someone,..( when you quit tryin )

It's the fact that you have only 6 posts. There's nothing wrong with you -- nobody has had a chance to get to know you yet, that's all. The forums are the key to establishing yourself here. I NEVER got a reply to a first e-mail, but once I had been in the forums for awhile, I started GETTING e-mails. And that has never stopped....!

not saying your ugly or good looking since im a guy, lol. but posting here does help, not that its something you have to do. just search throughout the site for one you feel interest you and make an appropriate approach to them. you can always sit back and wait, but sometimes waiting makes you feel "unwanted" sorta like now. just give it time and search and you can talk around here and use your typing for getting the attention of other women.

maybe if you lied by omission, and didn't fess up to the car not being yours, you'd get more email/replies?

oh,,ok so it's all about the lambo,, right?? (i did take your advice though.)
Thanks for the advice about the forums, I was just hoping to meet more people who are LOCAL. the forums just seem to be more nationwide.

No, you're not ugly, you're just new. Patience, patience.

i'm ugly and unwanted tooo so your in good company.