I guess this is where you would place suggestions

Im new here, still trying to find my way around


but a suggestion would be If there be a way
to know if the poster is a male or female without
looking at their profile.
To add that you cant tell because no pic or pic is
different.
So how do we know. Maybe if names are different color
for women or men????

yep i agree

As a newbie here, too, I agree.

Do you mean in the search results? Or in the forums? In the search results, you should know because you indicated whether you were looking for men or women. Can you give me a little more detail on the context in which you don't know the sex of the person you are looking at?

They are probably referring to the Forums Mike. Sometimes it's hard to decipher if the person posting is male or female because of the photo they use.

they said poster

so i would guess they would mean where one posts


they offered one name color for guys and another color for the gals


i would suggest one color for each what yer looking for, you have listed in profile

such as man looking for man

woman looking for woman

man looking for woman

woman looking for man

and so on and if ya really wanna get specific

you could do marriage friend and so forth lol

It would be great if mutual match had a turn off or block feature similar to instant messaging. No offense, but I rather get email notices for emails written to me instead.

Considering this is a Forum that begins by any member posting a subject, it should allow the original author to delete their topic (at some point). It's illogical and senseless to find a topic and realize you've wasted time on replying to an outdated subject.

Im sorry it has been so long since posting

I meant colors for the forums. So to know who is male/female

pics dont always help and names do not tell if woman or man.

I hope that helps.

Thanks for clarifying, lilcav. This idea has been suggested a few times, and we are considering it. For what it's worth, I like it.