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Topic: How did you handle that?
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:10 PM
:heart: Has anyone out there ever been in love with someone and the other person did not have the same feelings as you did?:heart:

bigsmile How did you handle that?bigsmile

no photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:12 PM
I handled it the only way I could. By not speaking to her again.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:13 PM
Sure I have. and it completely sucks but you just deal with it. ok maybe getting depressed and crying happens for a little while but after some time- it gets better and you wish that person all the best and you move on- its usually best to cut off all contact with that person, at least in my opinion, so you can get over them faster. You learn alot by having an experience like that.

ohwell

redhead44613's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:15 PM
yeah alot of times. I usally just suck it up an move on. nothing chocolate ice cream an a good movie can't fix.

darkowl1's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:17 PM
sure, like the can't eat, can't sleep.....for the whole summer, and the song "addicted to love" came out, and played so much that it would never leave me a moment of peace. horrible. at the end of the summer, she started to fall for me, and i moved to another state for work......go figure...ohwell ohwell surprised shades

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:19 PM

I handled it the only way I could. By not speaking to her again.



drinker good ideabigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:20 PM

Sure I have. and it completely sucks but you just deal with it. ok maybe getting depressed and crying happens for a little while but after some time- it gets better and you wish that person all the best and you move on- its usually best to cut off all contact with that person, at least in my opinion, so you can get over them faster. You learn alot by having an experience like that.

ohwell



flowerforyou Thank you for sharing that excellent answerflowerforyou

7z3r05's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:20 PM
I get hammered and play metal on my guitar at deafening volumes and when the neighbors knock ony door to complain I kick the sh1t out of them. That usually makes me feel pretty good.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:20 PM

yeah alot of times. I usally just suck it up an move on. nothing chocolate ice cream an a good movie can't fix.



flowerforyou Good point Britneyflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:21 PM

sure, like the can't eat, can't sleep.....for the whole summer, and the song "addicted to love" came out, and played so much that it would never leave me a moment of peace. horrible. at the end of the summer, she started to fall for me, and i moved to another state for work......go figure...ohwell ohwell surprised shades



:thumbsup: That's how it is Darkowl:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:21 PM

I get hammered and play metal on my guitar at deafening volumes and when the neighbors knock ony door to complain I kick the sh1t out of them. That usually makes me feel pretty good.




laugh Thats a good way to release some emotionslaugh

Cowboy80101's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:22 PM
Yes, my ex wife!mad

misstina2's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:23 PM
flowerforyou I'd force myself not to have feelings for the personflowerforyou

lovethelord's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:24 PM

:heart: Has anyone out there ever been in love with someone and the other person did not have the same feelings as you did?:heart:

bigsmile How did you handle that?bigsmile



Burned all his crap in my bonfire and that was it...pitchfork

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:25 PM

Yes, my ex wife!mad



drinks

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:25 PM

flowerforyou I'd force myself not to have feelings for the personflowerforyou




bigsmile me2flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:26 PM


:heart: Has anyone out there ever been in love with someone and the other person did not have the same feelings as you did?:heart:

bigsmile How did you handle that?bigsmile



Burned all his crap in my bonfire and that was it...pitchfork



surprised That's brutal lovethelord:laughing:

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:27 PM
Yes, that has happened to me. I ended the relationship because I could not hold back my feelings for him. He was honest about not feeling the same way but said it could grow to that level. I just felt we were on two different paths. It was painful yes; however, the communication allowed closure.

I think this is a big part of dating and romance. We just have to learn how to internalize feelings and use healthy means to resolve them.

lovethelord's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:28 PM



:heart: Has anyone out there ever been in love with someone and the other person did not have the same feelings as you did?:heart:

bigsmile How did you handle that?bigsmile



Burned all his crap in my bonfire and that was it...pitchfork



surprised That's brutal lovethelord:laughing:

Ya and the flames were huge!!!!!:banana:

lovethelord's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:28 PM



:heart: Has anyone out there ever been in love with someone and the other person did not have the same feelings as you did?:heart:

bigsmile How did you handle that?bigsmile



Burned all his crap in my bonfire and that was it...pitchfork



surprised That's brutal lovethelord:laughing:

Ya and the flames were huge!!!!!:banana:

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