Topic: Men never win
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miko1960 Joined Thu 06/11/09 Posts: 408 |
Why can we never win an argument with a woman,maybe because us men would rather diffuse the situation before something is said that can't be taken back,maybe we are trying to be the peacemakers in a relationship.
Woman however just can't seem to let go when arguing with a man,I just can't see anything constructive in arguing having a serious discussion however is another matter,when voices become raised and anger crops into the picture this would be a good time for both parties to back away from one another. At times when I have been in arguments with girlfriends,they will follow me out the door and would not let me leave by standing in front of my cars door or even taking my car keys away from me,one even jumped on my back,because I was trying to leave in the middle of a discussion we were having where she was becoming angry. A lot of times arguments start over something about the relationship,I realize a woman can become frustrated when discussing these matters with us,since we don't like to talk about these things,we feel if it ain't broke why try to fix it. |
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Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19282 |
Don't bother trying
We are just that good!!! |
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89693 |
QUOTE: Why can we never win an argument with a woman,maybe because us men would rather diffuse the situation before something is said that can't be taken back,maybe we are trying to be the peacemakers in a relationship. Woman however just can't seem to let go when arguing with a man,I just can't see anything constructive in arguing having a serious discussion however is another matter,when voices become raised and anger crops into the picture this would be a good time for both parties to back away from one another. At times when I have been in arguments with girlfriends,they will follow me out the door and would not let me leave by standing in front of my cars door or even taking my car keys away from me,one even jumped on my back,because I was trying to leave in the middle of a discussion we were having where she was becoming angry. A lot of times arguments start over something about the relationship,I realize a woman can become frustrated when discussing these matters with us,since we don't like to talk about these things,we feel if it ain't broke why try to fix it. |
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Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110 |
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robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447 |
damned if you are right and damned if you are wrong in all cases you get
on the head.
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miko1960 Joined Thu 06/11/09 Posts: 408 |
Ya just can't let things go
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Gypsy41
Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123381 |
Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!
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FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 28770 |
Don't argue? I find it rather pointless myself, as soon as a discussion becomes an argument both have lost the ability to maintain common ground...thus, useless.
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robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447 |
QUOTE: Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!
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Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19282 |
QUOTE: Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!
[/quot Ain't that the truth Most women have no idea how powerful they truly are!! |
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PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782 |
Ha!!!!! You just don't yell as loud as i do.
Take control of the situation
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darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 11639 |
i never argue anymore, with anyone. i just say, well, i could be wrong, but lets look at the facts together, and decide what really works, because i respect you enough to value your high opinion with me.
when you argue, you lose face and possibly a well needed earned friend. you will get utmost respect and maybe even learn that you both were wrong or right, but you do this together......nobody and i mean nobody wins an arguement, whether they win or lose, they both lose! anymosity then comes out when arguements start and it's generally the beginning of the end of things that constantly need to be repaired through-out your time together.....good luck! if you want more info, e-mail me on how this is done, cheers!
Edited by darkowl1 on Mon 06/29/09 10:53 AM
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1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8498 |
QUOTE: Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!
Where's my bolt cutters?
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miko1960 Joined Thu 06/11/09 Posts: 408 |
YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.
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singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25638 |
QUOTE: Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!
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michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14512 |
QUOTE: YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.
And look where it got Ya. |
Gypsy41
Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123381 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.
And look where it got Ya.
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miko1960 Joined Thu 06/11/09 Posts: 408 |
NO ANYTHING.
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michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14512 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.
And look where it got Ya.
And didn't eve argue with anyone about it either.
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FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 28770 |
QUOTE: NO ANYTHING.
Well, at least you were right...correct? See the fundamental issue with arguments? There always has to be someone wrong...again, waste of time... |
on the head.

Take control of the situation