Can someone explain to me why only much older men approach me? Is it my pictures, what I've written? Help......

Thanks much

How old do you mean when you say "much older?" What age group are you looking to attract?

Good Looking woman, that's why, profile is reasonable too.

You could always change the age limits in your settings as to who can contact you.

mid to late 50s and 60s. I have set my age range for 36 - 50, but it doesn't seem to help. Don't get me wrong, older men are great - it's just this weird phenomenon.

The vibe I get from your photos and essay is a staid, low key, and conservative one. This might be a contributing factor. Show your youth and you'll attract younger men!

Older men like younger women. Thats been a given for centuries.

I suppose all you can do is ignore them since you've made it clear you prefer the age group you cited.

Frist,you're way too pertty,don't be afraid to ugly yourself down abit.I'm sure if you look at some poeple's profile you'll get some ideals,lose a tooth or two,use your cell phone as if you're in a photo shoot.By the way don't trust older guys,their a buch of loosers,they buy bikes to compensate for other things, if you know what I mean.Good luck

Change your default pic to the one in the green shirt. I think its your best pic.
The main pic is too blurry.
I think more younger guys would respond to the one in the green shirt.

Yup..its the baby crib in the background
It might be triggering an Oh No! that they're not even aware of

That's too funny. I forgot there was a crib in the background. Funny to think that the older man would be drawn to the baby thing though eh? The fuzzy one was taken by my 4 year old :-) I'll switch it. Thanks for the advice everyone.

reason 1; sounds like you make a lot of money and are in control, you will attract men that make more money and are in a position of more power/authority..which usually are much older men

reason 2; hate to say it, but kids...much older men are usually much more mature

hey, but i'd go out with you

roko

tori,i sympathize with your problem,i get e-mails from 'old guys' all the time,and it's just not what i'm looking forbe seeing you

I am thinking that Roco is right! A woman in control of her life and career scares younger men. Most of us don’t grow up until they are into their 40's. Absolutely nothing to be worried about, in my opinion.

I also agree with the principal of older men preferring younger women.

I would think patients would be the key. I wouldn’t think with a beauty like you, it would be hard to attract almost any man. I guess though most of us are here because it is hard.

Ok, so I updated my pictures to not look so serious. We'll see. Thanks again for the input.

The new pics are better!

The picture in the green shirt is definitely your best pic IMO. Make it your main and watch the emails flood in! I would change the allowed ages for the people emailing you if it bothers you about their ages.

But you are beautiful, any man (young or old) would be lucky.

TM