I have been talking with someone from another site. He seems nice and all that. However, my intuition is kicking in that he might be married.

Approximately 3 times that we have been talking he has had to go abruptly. And a few hours later, I would get a text from him that his son 'had a serious reaction from a bug bite' or 'hurt himself' or 'had an emergency'.

I have a son, I remember a few years ago when my son was more accident prone. But I don't remember my son having 3 trips to the ER within a month.

Also, I called him last night not long after we exchanged a couple text messages and I got his voicemail. He texted back around 11:30 pm (2 1/2 hours after I lefted the message) to see if I was still awake.

He is also on the other site until 1:30 in the morning every evening.

[Don't worry, I will follow my intuition] Just lookin' to see what you think?

Bad JuJu vibes are buzzing. Magic 8 Ball says "Proceed with caution"

Yeah that's what I was thinking.

Give him lots of rope, if he's a 'playa' he'll hang himself soon enough.

That sounds like he is. There are lots of Men on here who will do that. Be married and all. I got hooked up with one before I knew it and then it was hard as hell to get out of. Trust you gut, it is more often right than not.

You know I will! [Haven't met him yet... might not even... depending on his reactions/actions]

I have learned to trust my intuition!

Does the red flag mean war? LOL

Have you asked him?

It's a warning flag.

People haven't said much about them lately.

How many red flags before you figure out your BF is a player?
Do red flags in the profile keep you from contacting someone?
What are red flags and which are deal breakers?

etc. etc. etc.

Not yet. He said when we first started talking that he was divorced. And that they did it themselves through a legal aid/paperwork thingy.

This is seem odd to me because they have an adopted child together, which I thought might put them into the court system.

Oh, but believe me I will be asking some questions!

You know after I said 'red flag' to myself it hit me! LOL

I am running a little slow this morning!

You have to come out and ask him?

Listen carefully to his responce!!

Will do, mama!

i call b.s!if u do ask him he could lie but he might also get mad which is a good sign hes playing you.

Just tell him in a casual way that you always had a fantasy of sleeping with a married man, if he is married I think the thought of sleeping with you will make him tell you.

Darlin', I am trained to detect lies (and there is no emotional attachement to this person) so I will be able to hear a lie in his voice.

So, I will just have to ask some tough questions because my intuition is kicking in.