Topic: are you the type
RKISIT
Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 11538 |
of person that tells someone what they want to hear or exactly how you feel? the situation is out of the question...just a honest answer will do....kind of oxymoronish ...eh?
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alisha07
Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 4206 |
im blunt... way too blunt.. its a new thing to me though.. i used to beat around the bush but that didnt help.
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Ladylid2012
Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 15892 |
The truth
the whole truth and nothing but the truth... 
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Gossipmpm
Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 11766 |
I tell people just how I feel!
Take it or leave it |
Rockmybobbysocks
Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3959 |
i don't sugarcoat.
so i don't tell people what they want to hear. i tell them the truth, fact, or my opinion as to how i see it. its taken me years to learn to control doing this. LOL so i dont say it all the time. like i said i dont sugarcoat. if i feel my comments might be too harsh, i just keep my mouth shut. |
msmyka
Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 11560 |
I always say exactly how I feel but if I know they might not like it I try to say it in the most diplomatic way possible. Even if it's something that needs to be said, I don't think slapping someone across the face with it is the most effective method.
Edited by msmyka on Sun 07/19/09 12:34 PM
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elwoodsully
Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 6958 |
I tell the truth, but use tact in doing it. I've seen others lose friends due to being blunt and honest. You still need to be honest, but you need to remember they have feelings.
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silly
Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 1674 |
QUOTE: I always say exactly how I feel but if I know they might not like it I try to say it in the most diplomatic way possible. Even if it's something that needs to be said, I don't think slapping someone across the face with it is the most effective method. I'm right there with u girl. 
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silly
Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 1674 |
QUOTE: I tell the truth, but use tact in doing it. I've seen others lose friends due to being blunt and honest. You still need to be honest, but you need to remember they have feelings.
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Phuque
Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 13122 |
I lie when they ask me if their butt looks big...
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msmyka
Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 11560 |
QUOTE: I lie when they ask me if their butt looks big... 
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lionsbrew
Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 10808 |
Well when I don't have anything nice to say my silence can speak volumes. But no I'm not one to mince words I am who I am.
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RKISIT
Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 11538 |
QUOTE: I always say exactly how I feel but if I know they might not like it I try to say it in the most diplomatic way possible. Even if it's something that needs to be said, I don't think slapping someone across the face with it is the most effective method. 
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Jamie82
Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14950 |
I'm honest. There is a way to say things, and there is a time and place to do so. The way you handle things in life are the actions that count.
Edited by Jamie82 on Sun 07/19/09 12:50 PM
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IndnPrncs
Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 41925 |
QUOTE: I always say exactly how I feel but if I know they might not like it I try to say it in the most diplomatic way possible. Even if it's something that needs to be said, I don't think slapping someone across the face with it is the most effective method. I agree... |
seamac
Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 1200 |
QUOTE: I'm honest. There is a way to say things, and there is a time and place to do so. The way you handle things in life are the actions that count. Agreed! |
keith1916
Joined Sun 06/14/09 Posts: 2057 |
QUOTE: I tell people just how I feel! Take it or leave it 
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totage
Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 9701 |
QUOTE: of person that tells someone what they want to hear or exactly how you feel? the situation is out of the question...just a honest answer will do....kind of oxymoronish ...eh? I'm always honest. If what they want to hear isn't how I feel, I tell them. |
EquusDancer
Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 1193 |
I'm a hard b***h, because I don't pull punches. Lost friends that way, which sucked, but in the end, was probably worth it.
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MeChrissy2
Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 8640 |
If it involves sharing my feelings and I feel vulnerable I will hold back but other than that I always tell the truth. It makes me easier to live with.
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