I have been on this two days now and I am fed up with the azzclowns that are flooding my inbox with nudges, invites, and whatever. That in itself is not a bad thing, but I am getting users with girl names.

Sometimes, I might get mail from a girl who just wants to say that she enjoys my forum posts and have made friends this way. But I don't appreciate it coming from someone who is pretending to be a girl who is really a guy. These I have deleted and blocked.

I think that the pics need to be verified before the user can post. Often times, is either deleted and the user warned or the profile deleted all together.

I am not trying to date anyone off this site, just here for the forums. But with all the spammers and scammers on the site already, the ones who are here to date are getting screwed out of something authentic.

Any site has it's ups and downs, whether it be old photos, abuse, or explicit photos. Just wish that this could be remedied in some sort of way. It is very annoying.

I too am here for the threads and forums and hopefully the winning lotto numbers .

I have made great friends on this site.

Those members that annoy you, just block and delete their emails - don't waste any energy giving them any attention.

Enjoy the site, it rocks!!!!

Frances

there is no way for a site to know if pictures are accurate or not. you can set your mail settings to receive email from certain people.

any one that is a scammer/spammer or sends offensive type emails...you can report them

yes,i agree.i have been attacked in the forums,have had the scammers in my profile more than once. there should be a limit to whats aloud.especially i have had confrontations in the forums. i had a girl call me a pig in the forums lastnight because i said to one guy"if youve got a fatty,ive got the beer.her reply was to call me a pig because she assumed i was calling someone fat. not to mention,she was in my email this morning threatening to keep up the harrasment because she didnt like my reply to being called a pig.im sick of this kind of ****.when people come into your email ,make threats and then make good on them ,they should be thrown off of mingles completely! i so much agree with you!

all you can do is report them. Please read the rules and don't engage them in attacks...just report them. the Mods and Admins aren't everywhere, so they might miss somethings and they don't know what is in emails

I find I only get the spam and untoward advances when I have my real picture up.

<--- When I put up a flower or other nondescript photo, I don't get bothered.

I agree with Fran, this site is great, but there are always going to be those retards that think sex via modem is gratifying. Once you trudge past those clowns, you'll find that the majority of us are here for the sometimes witty banter and that's all. There are some great people here, you'll find them as regular posters in the forums.

hang in there...the internet is full of ppl who think it's ok to act however they want and say whatever they want...
just block the dorks, and report anyone acting a fool in the forums..

have fun!

can you believe i`m posting this while sitting on the toilet?

Maybe number 69 has brought you all the trouble .
69 is nether a church number nor a nun name...... .
We are adults and we all know what 69 is . .

Yes.

Good point. When men have that number as part of their name, I'm not interested in them.

When women have this number, men will be after them like killer bees........buzzzzzzzzzzz....... .
Also she is a pretty pic....I think...... .

After looking at your profile I'm thinking that 69 is probably your birth year.However, I wouldn't have had it as part of my username. Not much you can do about that now, but you can set your filters so you don't get unwanted mail. Good luck

God I'm happy to be ugly, no worries no unwanted emails. I knew there would be a plus to this one of these days.

Ugly? You're not ugly.