WHY IS IT THAT MOST GUYS LIKE THE PERFECT FIGURED GIRLS????
WHY IS IT THAT ITS SOOO DAMN HARD TO LOOSE WEIGHT...SOMETIMES I WISH I COULD ACCEPT MYSELF THE WAY THAT I AM BUT I CAN'T ITS TOO HARD...

Well hunny... god made you what you are. And if you cant love you how do you expect someone else to be able to love you?

I KNOW THAT...AND I REALLY DON'T LIKE FEELIN THAT WAY...I ACTUALLY THOUGHT I WAS OVER ALL THAT AND WAS ACCEPTING MYSELF THE WAY I AM BUT IDK WHAT HAPPENED THAT I WENT BACK TO THE SAME LOW STAGE...

There is a thread in ...Health, Sports and Fitness where others are talking about weight loss, offering tips, that sort of thing. Maybe you would enjoy going in there and talking with them..just a thought.

The worst thing you can do is beat yourself up over it though.

THANKS

A man wants a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, ,,,,,,,regardless of how much of it she has.
I think that a woman having children is the ultimate scarifice for her man. That process often runs havec on their bodies, before and after child-birth. A real man would love his woman more. EAT HER up.....Just like a great pasta meal.

Just a thought.

Robert

Learning to love yourself means you have to stop caring about the societal "image" we have been taught and learn to love yourself the way you are.

Dieting and exercise should only be done if you truly want to do it, not for others.

There are men who love women no matter their physical size.

Hey and typing in all caps means you are yelling. Just FYI.

Good luck

sorry didn't know that...but thanx

God didn't make me fat. My overeating and low self esteem made me fat.

You'll have to love yourself before anyone else will love you, IMO. I personally think you're beautiful. Try hanging out with different types of guys, and you'll eventually find one that loves you for who you are.

You'll have to love yourself before anyone else will love you, IMO. I personally think you're beautiful. Try hanging out with different types of guys, and you'll eventually find one that loves you for who you are.


thanx...i know ill get over it, just hasn't been a good few days i guess, thanx anyway

If you always do what you've done... you'll always get what you got.

By the way, you're not that fat.

Miss Mayra
Don't worry take your time. You are young. Not to mention it does take awhile for some guys to mature.
When people start getting over how a person looks the world will be a better place.
Good Luck

[lilott you silver tongued devil.] when you are really ready you will do it. two years ago I lost 100 lbs and I have kept it off. but there is no magic to it. so many people asked me if it was dieting or exercise, you can't choose just one. I started out by cutting out almost all carbs because that jumpstarts the process and gives you rapid results you can see and be motivated by then I joined the local rec center and started my love/hate relationship with the treadmill that endures to this day. But understand you have to be highly motivated because there is no destination it has to become a lifelong commitment. Also if there is underlying emotional or self esteem issues weight loss will help but by no means cure these. Overeaters anonynmous or a twelve step program(if applicable) is free and can be a lifesaver. Above all adress it while you are young with lots of energy it only gets more difficult and while it is mainly a cosmetic issue now it can creep up a few lbs a year and become a serious health and quality of life issue.

..the sooner you quit worrying about what others think the better you'll feel and the happier you'll be...

Congrats,that's amazing.Great advice to her and anyone else wanting to lose weight.They should think of it not as a diet,but as a life change.

what he said!

yes,Did u hear about the model that got fired,because the stupid disingner thought that she was to fat,so disgusting.Then they wonder y young girls have self esteem issuses.