To me it's just a contract, seal the deal with paper crap. If true love prevails the contract is not needed to show that.

If I am in love...you can keep that ridiculous piece of paper

so does that mean the wedding is off Jim???

seriously though...I agree.

and people change when you marry them i've found...they get all possessive...

marriage can be a great thing....or a nightmare...but the decider is not marriage, its the two people involved....i will say desolving a marriage is harder than just kicking him out.. wld i do it again?? today the answer is hell no...but next year it might be yes...

Tied to the whipping post. Would I ever get married again? Hell no!

i never knew what true happiness was till i got married




































then it was to damn late

Speeds up the failure rate in a relationship, theoretically useless, I won't be getting married ever. I don't agree with the practice, it is flawed both statistically and logically, if I love someone my word should do them well enough without a petty contract or pathetic ring.

I know...I'm the romantic type...

The #1 cause of divorce is marriage!

I'm not marriage material. Oh well, bring on the love fest!

FOR ME,,,Marriage is a lifetime bond that involves a man and woman who cherish love and respect each other and who agree to include and honor God and His model for marriage.

I think it fails because people usually are more selfish in their motivation and always have the eye open for someone else who is strong wherever their partner is weak. I think people also dont take into account whether the relationship has enough to build upon for a lifetime and whether their partner shares the same ideas about being a spouse or parent and a responsible committed adult.

People also arent honest with themselves about compatibility. I know I have twice overlooked how strong a role God played (or didnt) in my partners lifestyles and choices. If I had the chance, I would pay closer attention to that the next time myself.

if marriage was ment to work and be amazing then why is the divorce rate soo high..

im not Betty crocker in not Suzie homemaker and i cant stand to date someone for too long!

With me it's the other way around, they never want to date me for too long.

yeah ive been dumped before but they all have been losers...

I think we've dated the same guys.

lol yeah and wow if i could erase every guy ive ever dated..id be a virgin who knew how to trust people

I'm a born again virgin.

I've enjoyed being married and I've enjoyed being single....

i guess i am too and glady i could go the rest of my life with out getting any

I view it from as great a distance as possible.