ok , i have a friend, honestly, lol , its not me. anyway she dated 2 different guys at 2 different times, first guy she dated 3 times he wanted sex, she said no, so he stopped dating her, 2nd guy she dated 5 times, had sex with him and he stopped dating her. what do guys want? do you want sex after a few dates or do u think the girl is trashy if she sleeps with you that soon? my friend is ready to give up on dating cuz guys never truthfully say what they want from a woman. only serious answers please, my friend is really upset about this.

Sounds like your friend attracts the wrong kind of guys...I am really sorry she is upset about it and it is not her fault at all. Those two guys should have told her what they wanted or what was on their mind

If I am in a committed relationship I want sex but if we are just going out on some dates I dont expect it. Most women will have sex with you after they know you a little bit if you dont pressure them about it.

I want a new hoody. That is all I want. She buys it for me, I am all hers.

i did say serious answers goofball

Ten lashes for me huh?


Seriously though, alot of guys just want to get in for the booty. Hate to say it, but it is true. But not all guys want that. There really isn't a simple answer, other than that giving up on dating means that you give up on maybe meeting a sincere person. Maybe what she needs to do is just relax and try not to think to hard about dating. Let things come as they do.

i want goofball as mirror mirror would type...yum yum

I have had this problem as well. She should keep trying. That great guy that comes along 1 in 10 might be the next one.

Some guys will think of women as trashy if they sleep with them too soon. Other guys will just want to sleep with her and don't care. She should stick with what is important to her and if that is waiting to know somebody before sex, she should stick to that with every guy.

maybe she gives bad hummers?

not nice RK

remember women don't want a nice guy...according to the females on here...just promoting myself

oh , ok , so thats prob why you have been on here since 2008???

yep and that also includes all the one nighters

sounds like your proud of that ?? hmmm what a great guy you are!!

I just want sex!






Did I say that?

she needs to know what she wants and not give in. If the guy isn't what she is looking for (expecting sex too soon or anything else) then she needs to move on to the next one. JMO

so were the women they were great

They don't want lil horndogs either