Topic: Scared To Love
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
How do you break through to someone who is scared to love?
If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears?
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TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 40129 |
That is something that each person has to deal through by themselves. No one can make someone love them or make them love another.
If one is scared to love there is normally deeper issues that person needs to solve.............
Edited by TxsGal3333 on Mon 11/02/09 07:10 PM
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moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4239 |
I would say I too am such a person...for the closer someone gets to me...the faster I pull away...
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randyrobinett Joined Tue 10/06/09 Posts: 147 |
my guess would be you must be a real good friend with no expectations of benefits...I agree there are very deep issues that will take a looooooonnnnnnngggggg time
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: That is something that each person has to deal through by themselves. No one can make someone love them or make them love another. If one is scared to love there is normally deeper issues that person needs to solve.............
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: I would say I too am such a person...for the closer someone gets to me...the faster I pull away...
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peladac Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 4782 |
Don't rush it, slowly earn their trust and work your way into their hearts. Some have built a wall, not to keep others out, but to see who is willing to climb it.
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TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 8658 |
The people that are scared to love probably has some issues that they are having a hard time dealing with.
Being their friend and showing them you care (without pushing) is probably the best thing anyone could do. |
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: my guess would be you must be a real good friend with no expectations of benefits...I agree there are very deep issues that will take a looooooonnnnnnngggggg time |
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: Don't rush it, slowly earn their trust and work your way into their hearts. Some have built a wall, not to keep others out, but to see who is willing to climb it.
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lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3007 |
QUOTE: How do you break through to someone who is scared to love?
If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears?
SUPRISE SEX works everytime |
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: The people that are scared to love probably has some issues that they are having a hard time dealing with. Being their friend and showing them you care (without pushing) is probably the best thing anyone could do.
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PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 6339 |
QUOTE: How do you break through to someone who is scared to love?
If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears?
That is pretty easy just calmly give them your love without a lot of drama. Be patient about letting them develope their feelings. Don't crowd them to do or say what they feel. Say I love you in small everyday actions not words. |
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: How do you break through to someone who is scared to love?
If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears?
SUPRISE SEX works everytime
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motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 6825 |
They are not "scared to love". They just aren't that into you.
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moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4239 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: I would say I too am such a person...for the closer someone gets to me...the faster I pull away...
I have a fondness for cute little monkeys |
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: How do you break through to someone who is scared to love?
If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears?
That is pretty easy just calmly give them your love without a lot of drama. Be patient about letting them develope their feelings. Don't crowd them to do or say what they feel. Say I love you in small everyday actions not words. good advice
Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 11/02/09 07:21 PM
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: They are not "scared to love". They just aren't that into you. could be
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87853 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I would say I too am such a person...for the closer someone gets to me...the faster I pull away...
I have a fondness for cute little monkeys
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galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 13390 |
QUOTE: How do you break through to someone who is scared to love?
If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears?
Be real. Be patient. Be honest. Be kind.
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How do you break through to someone who is scared to love?
good advice
could be