I think of all of you my friends. What do I do If the man I was
in love with for two year . Weel he was a *** while I was dating him.
Then he was in a motorcycle accident for in the hospital for 6 months now. So he getting his mind back. I v been by his side all this time, hoping he might come out a better person. But guess what,,,he still and ***. lol He likes the women. How do I get over him??? --Help!

Church.And pray for him

You're not a @@@ so why do you want to hang out with one.

Why are you putting the drama in it, and acting like its such a tough decision?


Hes treats you like crap, or whatever.. and you want to be with him.



okaayyyyyyyy.

Take his favorite possession....and then set it on fire, dancing around it going, "Neener....neener....neener!"

Probably accepting he is, and never was, the man you were in love with so rather than mourning this guy as a loss just forget about him.

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so true,,so true
ill think about that
but it still hurts like hell

Girl, life changing expiriences happen. Thing is not even almost dying in an accident was enough to turn this man. I know people who eat fire and piss ice cubes, I'm sure we all do. You can love him all
you want, just fall in love with someone else because he is not going
to change for you or anyone else. I've seen your posts so I know you are an intelligent woman. Keep loving this guy, but find yourself someone else to love you back. Bulldog.

my feeling come out in poerty
so here gos----

I feel sad tonight
I see nothing but neil
in my site
I need to start seeing
a different light
Neil now says
he dont know if we
are right
for each other
until the end of light
Neil stil mixed up
and that alright
But what do I do
with my feelings
Iv held on so tight
I guess just pray
to God for neil
to get better
and say everything
going to be alright
But until then
I need to move on
and change my life
so I guess it ok
to express my self
and tell you all
I feel sad tonight

Thank you Bulldog
That helps

what works for me (and it does take time) is to remind myself that I deserve better. Whenever I feel I'm missing someone, I remember there was a reason we broke up. I can care about someone (as in wishing them the best of luck) but I won't let myself be treated bad again like that.

Best of luck to you and I hope for the best

I know how you feel my fiance who i had been dating almost three years broke up with me on Halloween. We had some rough times, i could be a ***** and he could be an ***...that's what made us so perfect. But he decided to call it quits, i was so upset at first i kept calling and texting him....he was nice about it and said that he needed to focus on his college and his kids and he didn't have time to keep me happy and he just wanted me to be happy, but it still hurt and i am taking it one day at a time and trying to stay busy to keep my mind off of things.

Nothing wrong with feeling sad over a dissappointment. Give yourself a weekend to be bummed and pamper yourself with girlfriend therapy.

Heck get a gal pal, or three or four, and go to your nearest city that has a hotel with a club and a resturant on premises and preferably hosting a convention and have a blast.

have you tried tequila?

Sounds cliche but acceptance is the first step... I was married and was put through hell by my ex-wife. Once I realized she was making my life horrid and trying to drag me under her feet, it was that much easier to let go.

why do some of us women want the man who dont want us?

Mothering abiity to want to change someone????.. It doesnt work....Im sure sum of us wish it did sometimes

Perhaps we didn't have the love from our parents like we should so that is what is comfortable to you. If your parents weren't there for you-you seek out something similar because that is what you were used to.

Some of us like a challenge -which isn't healthy and can lead to heartache.

Many women fall in love with someone's potential. I've done it myself. Love someone as they are or don't love them at all.

If your self-esteem is lacking you can tell yourself that you couldn't get better....but deep down you know it's not true.

Some people are enablers or fixers. They so focus on others and what's happening to them that they don't get the best for themselves.

So mourn, then move on and hang out with friends, find new friends, think of yourself and day by day do one small thing to lead you to the direction you want your life to go. Only you have the power to change your life. Best of luck.

Move on Mendy!!!

You say ADIOS and walk out the door with a big smile!!

There are soooo many men out there!!

Enjoy!!!!