What do you think? Is it boredome, loneliness or for trying to find a date or is it a drug? lol

Any one or combination of reasons .All people have different reasons for being here .Some are still healing ,some are lonelyand someare hopeing get lucky and find a new love .

Yeah that is true.

still trying to discover why i do it

I like the forums.

It's my drug of choice!!!

To feel the on-line world penetrate my veins like H!

To nod off while jumping the forums!!

Can't get any better than this!!!!

What Ruth said...

Besides, it's better'n a poke in the eye with a sharp stick.

Hi Ms Ruth

Personaly, I like it because you can meet people. That is just fun oh yeah the number one reason is because it's free hahahahahaha

It's addicting...and I found some one special here!! As stated, we all have our different reasons and excuses. When I first joined, I was just lonely after moving to a new town. I never intended to start dating until I got my life in order.....but when you find some one wonderful, it's hard to say no.

i keep hoping that there is someone real somewhere out there that is what i'm looking for and is looking for me. i have a gut feeling that there isn't, but i'm still hoping.


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intelligent conversation.

and the dumb conversation is fun too

I think 'dating' site is sometimes a misnomer. USually, after you sign up there are options for what you are looking for and they are far more than 'dating'. I think the sits are MOSTLY used by people looking for dates but also by people like me who just want to mingle and meet new people for friendship or chat...

i go for the free booze.


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It seems for me it's just the forum since 2 out of 2 meetings for me were no show's

i met a girl from a different site and that was a bust. she was too masculine for my tastes.


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forums are great........and making GREAT friends!
not after DATES!!!!!!!

All reasons stated, but also a cynical optimist, that way when I don't get a date I'm not surprised!!! lol