Houwould you rate me in this pic.

uummm alone and sad

I kinda like them

I would suggest some new glasses and a haircut. Under all that mess is a good looking guy quit hiding it

... if you go for a make-over, ditch the mustache too. Your pic does look rather 80s. Is it an older pic? Update them for sure.

Why did you choose such a depressing username? You have to realize that won't attract a lady with a positive outlook.

I wish you the best and welcome to the forum. We are a bit loony here and maybe we can change you from "alone and sad" to "surrounded by friends and happy"!

Ok going for the make over. So I need to shave the mustache and get a hair cut. So what about the profile

Step 3:

Constructively....lol rate my photo (It is recent), and my profile please. Looking forward to all positive suggestions. :-)
Thanks
Cathy

PS what's step 4: and how many steps are there? lol

your very sexy lady

im new so rate my profile would you please

Thank you, but you didn't say anything about my profile. I've changed it already..lol and It's subject to change again without a moment's notice.......lol

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I would rate your profile Cathylyn but just as new at this. From my piont of view profile looks nice and a big smile gos a long way.

Is that a stain on the top of that chair?

now Pats... I know the thought of abusing a man chair is horrifying for you but cut the guy some slack.

Only Jill and Pats.

I think it's a great pic, but it does seem to be dated. Recent pics are more appreciated...and more honest.

Think you're a great lookin guy, but if you're happy with your appearance, that's all that matters.

The only thing I might suggest is a different user name, it kinda smacks of desperate.

Welcome to Mingle2 and best of luck to you!

Confidence and positive thinking are the only paths to success. Trust me I've been the negative thinker it's how I was raised (by my mom, who's a negative thinker) I had to find my own way out of it and it wasn't easy. Try to read some books about positive thinking. Most of us don't realize that we basically are painting the world we choose in our minds. If you think negatively then negativity will come, if you think positive you will see positive results. You cannot dwell on the past if you want positive things in the future. When you meet someone you like you have to give them the best you possible, not one that thinks negatively about the past but one that thinks positive about the future. People will notice your positive energy and things will change for you, but only when you've truly become a positive person on the inside and out.

if i wrote you a symphony what would you do