What do I need to change ?

Without knowing you, I'd say the screen name. It screams desperation to me.

By changing the inner attitudes of our minds we can change the outer aspects of our lives. Focus on seeing the positive in all situations and things might turn around.

Yeah, something with a more positive, upbeat attitude behind it I think would be more attractive.

I like that well said

I'm thinkin the pic posted with your wedding ring on might have a little something to do with it.

I thought the same thing, although he does say he isn't divorced yet.

Weren't you at the "Let's all slit our wrists" potluck dinner in July?
Come on, dude...get positive...finish wallowing in self pity...and move on.
Good luck!