Topic: general poll
Calleigh12
Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 13261 |
He should have decided who to commit to before he used the word "love." NEXT!
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ncfor1
Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 11 |
thanks for all the advice so far. and thanks for the compliment outkastboss . this makes me feel so much better and not like it's just me who thinks this is wrong..
Edited by ncfor1 on Sat 11/07/09 04:37 PM
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10391 |
Definitely not acceptable.
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Goofball73
Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 19275 |
QUOTE: ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy??? Cut his wee wee off and then see how much time he spends at these other chicks' homes. |
OutkastBoss
Joined Sat 12/30/06 Posts: 143 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy??? Cut his wee wee off and then see how much time he spends at these other chicks' homes. NOOOOOOOO!!!! 
Seems just a touch excessive |
heathersaysgobucks
Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 4941 |
QUOTE: I think this come down to how you feel about this man. Maybe he is seeing other women and maybe he is telling you the truth. If he is do you feel he brings enough value into your life to allow it? If you "kick him to the curb" do you think you can attract a better man? He hasn't said he'd see you exclusively. Perhaps he is trying to figure out which one of these women he is willing to commit to. Or maybe you should just call cheaters and see if you can get on TV. How hard could it be for her to "attract a better man"? This guy has told her he loves her, yet is still meeting with other women from dating sites. That's not sounding like love to me. I think I would rather be single than pondering on the amount of value he brings into my life. You don't play around with the L word unless you are a player, IMO. |
IndnPrncs
Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 41925 |
QUOTE: I think this come down to how you feel about this man. Maybe he is seeing other women and maybe he is telling you the truth. If he is do you feel he brings enough value into your life to allow it? If you "kick him to the curb" do you think you can attract a better man? He hasn't said he'd see you exclusively. Perhaps he is trying to figure out which one of these women he is willing to commit to. Or maybe you should just call cheaters and see if you can get on TV.  you don't use the "L" word when dating multiple people and attracting better men is not so hard to do... You make it sound like he's great and she's lucky to deal with his BS... I don't think so...
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ncfor1
Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 11 |
He also thinks that I am being totally outrageous about the whole thing.."they are just friends" he says...
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IndnPrncs
Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 41925 |
yeah and I'm sure if you did the same thing he'd be fine with it.. hey light bulb.. why don't you... if nothing else you'll get to know other people whilst proving him a hypocrite...
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876jayjay
Joined Fri 11/06/09 Posts: 45 |
QUOTE: More than a little crazy, that's just nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I would drop him so fast his head would come off....and I don't mean the one on his shoulders...lol |
Gator76
Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 873 |
Dwight Eisenhower? George Patton? Ulysses S. Grant? Oh, hell...not REALLY a General Poll!
BTW, Drop this guy like a three-foot putt!
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IndnPrncs
Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 41925 |
A yet "another" man saying it's BS... This is where you see the "quality" of people...
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laveidem
Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 938 |
 QUOTE: Don't be afraid to say...No that's not acceptable to me. You will end up in the same place anyway. Quicker to say no and be done with it. |
74Drew
Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 3590 |
QUOTE: ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy??? is there something wrong with you? it's just that you are way to pretty to stay with a loser. . . . |
Cutiepieforyou
Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 4913 |
QUOTE: ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy??? No, I would tell him bye bye. |
MirrorMirror
Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 87607 |
QUOTE: ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???  Stay with him. Maybe he is just a friendly guy. The other women will back off after they see you are with him
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ncfor1
Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 11 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy??? Stay with him. Maybe he is just a friendly guy. The other women will back off after they see you are with him
I don't know about that some of them do know about me still doesn't stop them.. thanks though |
TexasScoundrel
Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 1156 |
QUOTE: you don't use the "L" word when dating multiple people and attracting better men is not so hard to do... You make it sound like he's great and she's lucky to deal with his BS... I don't think so...
We don't know anything about this guy. Is it possible to love one person and still want to have sex with others? Of course it is. If this is a man of very high value to her she may choose to wait and see if he comes around. The last thing you want to do is give him an ultimatum. |
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IndnPrncs
Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 41925 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: you don't use the "L" word when dating multiple people and attracting better men is not so hard to do... You make it sound like he's great and she's lucky to deal with his BS... I don't think so...
We don't know anything about this guy. Is it possible to love one person and still want to have sex with others? Of course it is. If this is a man of very high value to her she may choose to wait and see if he comes around. The last thing you want to do is give him an ultimatum. You have a good point... Although, I do what works for me so if I needed to give an ultimatum I would... |
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Calleigh12
Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 13261 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy??? Stay with him. Maybe he is just a friendly guy. The other women will back off after they see you are with him
Pfft, women are vicious when it comes to men, they don't care if he's with someone, they don't even care if he's married. Like my cousin said, they'll **** your man with you in the next room if you're not careful. 
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