It's Not Hard To Sacrifice Something For Someone...
But
It's Hard To Find That Someone...
Who Deserves Ur Sacrifice...

Very true. But some really great people in the world so worth the sacrifice of looking...Have a great day.

Thanks star :-) by the way in this side of word it is 8 o clock evening lol...

Well, I don't think I need to find someone to sacrifice for. I said in a previous post that I would sacrifice my life for a compelete stranger. I doesn't have to be someone I cared or loved.

I don't think it has to be someone you love to sacrafice something for. It's better to give than receive. No matter who it is.

I would have to say, look at the soldiers who sacrifice there lives, so we can have freedom, now that is sacrifice.

Yes and our women in Service to country still need to get equal recognition, services, and support which I say loud and clear to my government representatives.

I often wish younger service women would wear their service pins on their lapel, resumes, and so forth because you rarely see them away from base in uniform or know to recognize them for it.

(((((((((Hugs for the Military Women In USA)))))))))
(((((Hugs for Military Women of Our Allies)))))))))

P.S. for the guys too. lol

Well, here in Canada we have our Veterna's license plates which I thought was a great concept. We have also had several services for the women who have served or in the military. I would willingly sacrifice my life to help someone in need or to help my country.

I would not consider doing things for my love partner in a relationship a sacrifice...if it's a sacrifice it's time to move on

it is a joy

Life's all about changes...something for something. If you are not willing to change or willing to give up something, then you will not grow. A flower needs to change with the seasons to grow .

and in making those choices for ourselves we will grow

we change as we grow anyway and vice versa- one cannot be alive and not change even if the changes are only on the inside or very small ones

I like ur flower analogy

I agree that making choices for ourselves will help us grow. In my last relationship; I cut down playing with my band as my boyfriend whanted to spend more time with me. It truly made me unhappy and I ended up hating him for it. He knew music was important and this band was my last connection to the the military I had. I won't ever do that again for anyone. It was too big of a sacrifice for me and no man is worth it.

Well in my book, the person who is deserving is the person you are in a relationship with. Your significant other should be the most important thing to you. When choosing a relationship partner, you should be prepared to sacrifice money, happiness, time, resources, your military band, etc, basically anything. Your significant other is more important than these things. There are too many selfish people who only care about thier own, instead of contributing to something that both can enjoy. How do you choose a relationship partner? You just choose, no one is perfect, you are going to have to make those sacrifices reguardless. It usually has something to do with physical, mental, and sexual compatability.

I don't ask any man to sacrifice anything for a relationship so why should I? My ex loved playing golf and he canceled a weekend bike ride with me to play in a tournament so I told him to go and have fun. Should I have told him to give up golf if I gave up my band? No way would he do it nor would I expect him to. He truly loves it and I wouldn't take that away from him. If I have to sacrifice my happiness then why would I want to be with that person in the first place? I would end up resenting him anyway. Its suppose to be compromise not giving up everything. No, I certainly wouldn't give up money as I need money to survive; love doesn't pay the bills. That is just not practical. Actually many would argue that family is more important than their significant other; so should they give up their family? I would rather be alone than to give my individuality. You strip a person of their individuality; what do you have left but just a drone that can be ordered around. If someone truly loved you; they would not ask you to give up things that have been a part of you all your life. That to me is them being selfish and not loving. I think each partner needs their own time and space away from each other and that means doing the things you love. You can't be attached at the hip. Our individuality is what makes us unique and without it you stop existing.

If you think about it, we sacrifice for others each and every day...