The feeling is mutual!

thanks - gosh - had no idea!

i never give silent treatment. i have, in the distant past, have recieved it, and it ruined anything that was ever developed.
i will never be in a relationship again, so i don't pay things like this any mind, but if someone asked me about it happening to them? i'd merely say that your relationship was over before it started, and if you continue with it at this rate, i can predict your future.




and it is pain.

well personally I don;t use the silent treatment on friends

but I will sometimes wait to chose my words with friends lovers and colleagues alike

where does the silent treatment get u no where

I cannot answer this....


I'm not talking to....

You!!!

I despise it. I do know that women tend to use that as a way to make the guy have a reaction. I say go with it! Silent is a wonderful thing.

I guess it depends on each person. I for one don't get upset if a guy gives me the silent treatment. I figure when he is ready, he will talk. Its hard to know what goes on in someone's head so who am I to judge that person when they go silent. I think some of us can tolerate the silent treatment where as others simply would not put up with it. To each his own I say.

My ex husband used to do that all the time when we would get into a fight. i got used to it but honestly think it is childish. If your not willing to talk then why be in a relationship? Communication is one of the keys to having a good relationship. Now when someone gives me the "silent treatment". I tell them how I feel and leave it at that. I honestly don't have time for childish games.

I've used the silent treatment in the past/had it used on me as well. It's a form of communication that sends a msg (to your partner) that you don't give a crap enough to talk things through. This type of behavior is what ends relationships.

I agree with you on that,It's not only childish behavior,it tells me the person is insecure,and dysfunctional.