been with a guy for a week and he had to rush to his sons side in hospital, that was all cool until he just texted me saying i'm sorry and it was a big mistake but i slept with my ex... Which lives in another state... He keeps saying how much of a stuff up it is and it should never of happened... What should i do.

Trust that voice in your head. Is that what you want for yourself? You have the real answer within you. It is hard sometimes to make the right decision. Good luck to you.

If it was me I would get out fast and not look back, it's just the beginning of a disaster.

thats the thing my head n heart is saying talk it through and make ground rules for he only sees his son once a month for they live far away... But again i've had this happen so many times to me but they were never as sorry about it as he is...

Next!!!!!!

I'd move on. If you can't trust someone, why waste your time and energy. Obviously he doesn't know what he wants, and anyone that gets caught in the crossfire of his bad decisions of whimsy is only going to get confused and hurt.

I'm sorry this happened.

Be glad it's only been a week and move on......

I agree with those folks^^ The drama is too emotionally and physically draining to be worth it. Find someone who's only dedicated to you.

you r all right, the more i think about it, my head says to move on' chin up n smile cause if he has done it once in this short time wat says he won't do it again with his ex when he visits his son...
Thanks everyone for the advice...

Kick him to curb like you said.

If he keeps on sleeping with that ex, then something is very wrong. He doesn't sound like he's all that to me. You know........? I'd just move on. There's better quality men. Even if they're hard to find.

Maybe I just think differently to other people but if it were me I would listen, talk it through and give him another chance. Realistically this man made a mistake and owned up admitting everything. By the sounds of him he seems honest, he felt bad and I don't know many guys that would say straight out that they were with another woman. It's still early stages so it's up to you what you decide. Maybe you will all think I'm an idiot for saying this, but hey that's just me.

Good luck

Using a loved one(his son) being ill in hospital as an excuse to change plans or cancel plans altogether is repulsive to me.

The "power of suggestion" will surely haunt him!

I'm not saying move on, but his choices should be an epic RED FLAG!

So during this one "week", did the two of you decide your relationship was exclusive? If not, then what's the big deal. If so, then get the hell out. If in just one week, he's already cheated, chances are, he'll do it again.

A week and he's running back to do the ex?????

Dump him before it's too late.

I have had them so sorry that they where in tears, the first time, then the second and so on. if you think that you will be able to relax and trust him everytime he goes to see his osn then fine. but if you are going to be worried it will never work.

At least it was only a week???? Not much consolation - sorry. I'd cut and run.

CURB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i would move on it was so soon in the relasionship for this to happen, allays lisen to your head though and do what feels right .

Move on...you will find better