can anybody help me
whenever I try to use the IM it just says waiting for the other person to connect
I was sending email messages to a girl and we agreed to go on the IM
she was trying to call me and vice versa
but we both kept getting the same waiting to connect message

Same!!...Ive been trying to talk to the same person..we are Both online at the sametime...Both are trying to IM...and nothing but the screen...waiting to connect...Very frustrating~

Yes very annoying
perhaps some nice person will help us out
thanks for the reply
very kind of you

HOW DO I IM?
First, you must have YOUR 'Instant Messaging'
turned ON:
http://mingle2.com/user/enable_im
(Or >>My Account>>Settings>>Turn ON IM)

Then you would go to the profile of the person
with whom you wish to chat.

Under their picture there is an orange button
'Instant Message' which you would click on and
the request to Instant Message is sent.

If there is no orange button labeled 'Instant
Message' it could mean one of two things.

The person does NOT have 'Instant Messaging'
turned ON.
(In which case you could email them and request
they turn it ON.)

Or, the person is in 'Stealth Mode.'
http://mingle2.com/user/toggle_stealth_mode
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Connection times may differ.
But if all the above is in place, it
should work just fine.
Assuming they have 'Accepted' the invitation.

I've used the IM feature and it worked great.

Hi
I used the Im yesterday and it worked fine
I only did what I did a few days back but then it never worked
Oh well, alls well that ends well
Thanks for the replies all the same