I have been on here for some time now and it seams like most of the women on here are not serious about wanting a relationship,they Mutual match you but never talk to you,what's the point for it if no one actually uses it,to many games going on and people that find someone need to update their profiles and let people know they found someone and just not respond back that's rude.

Try sending messages, rather than using mutual match. Some people will respond, some won't. It's just the way things go.

It is still all about the forums.
A place to earn and give trust.
It works.

the forums are the BEST Way to observe for a minute before deciding if you might have something in common with someone,,,,enought to try to connect

While I love the forums, they don't always help when trying to meet people in your own area to date. If you're cool with long distance, you'll have more luck, though.

I agree with all that has been said here. The forums!!! Try and see.

Mutual Match is ridiculous. I'd actually forgotten it existed. The forums are the place to get to know people, hands down!

Mutual match seems like something you would do if you were totally bored. Messaging? I don't know, a guess that would need to happen to take something here to the next level. But the forums, absolutely YES! Getting to know the people on mingle (if you ever really get to know someone on a public forum)is a blast.

I'm having a Groundhog day moment. Or is it just me?

I haven't looked at your profile but maybe you need to cast your net a bit wider...?

I'm having a Groundhog day moment. Or is it just me?

Could have sworn I was looking at a dog and not a hog. Maybe it's a typo