Is it wrong that i would like for once in my life to be taken out on dates that don't involve guys to want sex straight after.. I never been on dates or taken to dinner.. So am i wrong that i want to be treated different...

Not wrong at all. Just because some men have treated you less amazingly than you deserve does not mean you need to settle for that. good guys are out there, don't steele for less any longer.

It is soooo wrong on so many levels.
If, I pay, she should lay.

Just kidding. Any man should feel honored to take you out on a date without expectations of any kind.

This could all be my fault.
I wouldn't go out with someone unless I
already wanted to sleep with them :-)
So sorry for the expectations.

I'm hungry!

the men not same ^

Aside from insinuating the obligation of sex, WHY?

Do I hear the Princess syndrome? A first date is to find out information:

1. Does she have relationship potential to me?
2. Do I have relationship potential to her?

These are reasonable expectations on any date.

If you've never been on a date without sex as a "payment" then you may need to have a better opinion of the worth of your company.

so this means old fashion dating has flown away with the times and welcome to the twenty first century hey.... Will be searching the back of the cupboard for the gentleman in the world...
No wonder my kids tell me get with the times and wine, dine and 69... Lol

Hi like so many things in life, things change but there are still a few people with morals who still know how to behave like humans and not act with a jungle instinct.

A first date for me had always been to learn about another person to treat that person with respect and dignity and if you are a compatible couple then things in time may develop further. I an saying all this from my point of view things have certainly changed since I started dating many years ago...I had been happily married for almost 30 years but sadly I lost my wife to cancer in 2011 I know that if I ever start dating again those principles will still apply...Remember if you don’t respect yourself then no one will respect you..

David

that is so true david and thanks for all opinions and mg wat r u hungry for... You seem to be starving...lol

Instead of the usual slice of toast, why don't you try a freshly baked chocolate croissant for breakfast?

Be careful though...you may not ever go back to toast once you sink your teeth into the croissant

well that is something to think about, a chocolate crossiant, but i'm not one for the sweet chocolate, i more for cream and doughnuts. Lol

Whatever tickles your fancy

Scooby snack??

Pay for the date - that will make you feel treated differently and you will never date the same guy again but you will gain self esteem, trust me

im sorry sounds like the losers i attract hmmmmmmmmm

I know how you feel on that. No theres nothing wrong with it.