Topic: Response Time
PacificStar48
Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 8955 |
I haven't noticed it too often on this site but a couple of others I have been blown away by the number of people who become hostile, even abusive, if they email you and you don't respond, ofr respond slowly, o don't answer every question, or say even THANKS NO Thanks almost immediately. I understand it is nice to answer politely as often as is reasonable and usually do. But experienceing the death of my father recently I was stunned when someone called me an outright liar and several offensive names. I am stunned people can get that worked up by an online rejection. Any thoughts?
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wolfchic
Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 7683 |
QUOTE: I haven't noticed it too often on this site but a couple of others I have been blown away by the number of people who become hostile, even abusive, if they email you and you don't respond, ofr respond slowly, o don't answer every question, or say even THANKS NO Thanks almost immediately. I understand it is nice to answer politely as often as is reasonable and usually do. But experienceing the death of my father recently I was stunned when someone called me an outright liar and several offensive names. I am stunned people can get that worked up by an online rejection. Any thoughts? Just tell them ' thank them for showing your a$$ so soon. You just saved us both alot of time! 
Edited by wolfchic on Tue 05/29/12 11:25 PM
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Down2earthdebbie
Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 5946 |
This is TRUE!!!
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PacificStar48
Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 8955 |
Yea that is kind of how I took it but didn't waste my breath actually saying it to tyhem. I did think about posting his remarks on some kind of Frog Prince Association list. That kind of response is kind of scary. Made me wonder if the guy had all his marbles.
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msharmony
Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 32630 |
QUOTE: I haven't noticed it too often on this site but a couple of others I have been blown away by the number of people who become hostile, even abusive, if they email you and you don't respond, ofr respond slowly, o don't answer every question, or say even THANKS NO Thanks almost immediately. I understand it is nice to answer politely as often as is reasonable and usually do. But experienceing the death of my father recently I was stunned when someone called me an outright liar and several offensive names. I am stunned people can get that worked up by an online rejection. Any thoughts? RED FLAG VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM dodging a bullet when that happens,,,,, if they are that possessive before they even know you imagine life if you were dating,,,,,,, no thanx
Edited by msharmony on Wed 05/30/12 11:19 PM
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