Topic: What type do you attract?
42BlackBBW
Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3142 |
Was having a bit of a man bashing chat to a good (female) friend of mine the other day about the type of man that we seem to attract.
My friend and I are quite independent, self sufficient women. We are (mostly) easy going, intelligent and have a carpe diem attitude. When we do flirt manipulatively, we are upfront, obvious and you’d have to be blind not to see it coming from a mile off. We differ in the sense that she likes pretty, well groomed, successful types and I’m more flexible - basically she’s more materialistic than I am (and she’ll readily admit that)..however our personalities often attract the same type of man i.e. subs or men that appear ok initially but are so insecure that they kill the relationship before it starts. I’m not asking for a character assassination as I'm more than familiar with my flaws. This is more about whether you’re aware of the type(s) of person that you attract. |
esebulldog
Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 19910 |
IRL - very young girls who party hard
on mingle - none |
msmyka
Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 16730 |
Looks wise, creepers... personality wise I usually attract really awesome guys. Not all relationships last but I'm lucky in that mine have been with pretty decent guys.
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soufiehere
Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 20278 |
Mmmm, I would have to say I pretty much
attract anyone I care to :-) (I realize this is not politically correct but the truth often is not.) |
TammyA
Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 298 |
Well obviously, thus far, I've attracted the WRONG ones.
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Ghostrider2u
Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953 |
Ummm......Losers, drunks, tramps,creepers and strays.
I tried changing my aftershave....but........ occasionally.....a sweet lil old lady will hit on me at the grocery!!  
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motowndowntown
Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 13426 |
I usually don't classify people into types.
But I tend to go out with blonds, brunettes, and redheads. |
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25454 |
All types. I couldn't narrow it down to just one type.
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totage
Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 22875 |
QUOTE: Was having a bit of a man bashing chat to a good (female) friend of mine the other day about the type of man that we seem to attract. My friend and I are quite independent, self sufficient women. We are (mostly) easy going, intelligent and have a carpe diem attitude. When we do flirt manipulatively, we are upfront, obvious and you’d have to be blind not to see it coming from a mile off. We differ in the sense that she likes pretty, well groomed, successful types and I’m more flexible - basically she’s more materialistic than I am (and she’ll readily admit that)..however our personalities often attract the same type of man i.e. subs or men that appear ok initially but are so insecure that they kill the relationship before it starts. I’m not asking for a character assassination as I'm more than familiar with my flaws. This is more about whether you’re aware of the type(s) of person that you attract. It seems I tend to attract like minded women for the most part. Right now, there's only lady I'm focused on, so... |
Down2earthdebbie
Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 5945 |
The really young ones! I'm not sure why???
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Urg04es
Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 1411 |
QUOTE: IRL - very young girls who party hard
on mingle - none Darn it-I told you not to post my picture. LOL! I seem to be attracting all the want to be scammers lately. I think I am going to hit a limit with blocking priviledges if I keep it up. LOL! |
Dodo_David
Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 12377 |
What type do I attract? In real life or in cyberspace?
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Down2earthdebbie
Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 5945 |
Well I sure don't like guy's with hairs all over them!
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galendgirl
Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728 |
Apparently the wrong ones, given that I'm still single.
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MariahsFantasy
Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 4310 |
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smileyy19
Joined Mon 03/19/12 Posts: 43 |
Young guys that need their MOTHERS!!!!!!!! Melmacians.
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IndigoIllusions
Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5275 |
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That is funny!! ...just sayin'. 
Seems I attracted a lot of "wrong" guys, then I met the great guy I'm with now. 
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42BlackBBW
Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3142 |
QUOTE: IRL - very young girls who party hard
on mingle - none She's the wrong colour but 20 years ago, that was almost me
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oldhippie1952
Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 12851 |
I attract none.
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42BlackBBW
Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3142 |
QUOTE: I attract none. Don't believe that for a minute 
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