I am getting looked at by older women or foreign women. I do not understand why not the younger ones from US to look and to reply. Hmm... It always happen to me both in person and online. It has nothing to do with my profile. Must be my hair.. my age... Should I download a picture of me from the 20th century and make a new profile with younger age and get replies? haha.

I can not lie about my age and appearance. Been like this since age 18 with my hair. And first date ever with an older woman was when I was 20 (she was 35) at the time and no, she was not a cougar, thank you. We never did anything but out to a dinner and a movie.

Why is it the appearance and age and where I am from attract older ones and foreigners. I know about the foreigners--looking to get in the country. No thanks! If a foreigner woman really loves me for who I am, I relocate to her country so that she will be stuck not coming to the US. I would become an Ex-pat. Older women... what is the story here? Come on!!

How much younger are you hoping for? Age does matter for many people.

Read your own profile. You want an 18 to 36 year old to be a baby mill. Your profile comes off really negative. For a 47 year old man to snag a 18-36 year, he better be rich and good looking and charming. Unless, he plans on being played.

No big woo.
Everybody looks at everybody.
For their own reasons.

Being online gives one the illusion
that everyone is available to them.

While, in theory, this could be correct
it is more likely that online will treat
you the same way as reality does.

The more preferences you have, the tighter
your circle of possibilities.

Less preferences=more potential mates.

because you are old, and look even older????????????????????????

Ah, I missed the 18-36 part in your profile. My guess is that's why you're not getting many replies. That's awfully young, especially since you're in a hurry to get married. I'm only 33 and someone your age would be too old for me. Good luck, though!

That is an awfully negative spin to put on his profile. Totally uncalled for.

I apologize then for mankind's sake but if you are a woman and some guy that much older is looking for someone that much younger to have children ASAP, that's how it comes across whether it's true or not.

However, I do not take back the part about taking heed about being played.

It's John Larroquettes minime

Well darn! I didn't get a chance to look at his profile. Apparently us older women annoyed him so much he deactivated!

Foreigners look at you coz you look established, with a proper life in order. Your hair is very neat, and your smile is friendly. A chinese or pilipina's dream come true.

Why older women look at you? Coz you look older. They don't see your line until they look at you... you can't wear the "skeleton" of your profile text on the outside.

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I am quite the contrary to you. I've always liked older women. My first girlfriend to whose image I masturbated to, was my gym teacher in grade school. Without her even knowing about it, she was one of my best lovers!!

I am getting enamoured by women in their nineties these days. The only reason I don't pursue them are threefold: I am afraid I'll crush them, what with their osteoporosis; their minds are going; and the ones I asked out said, plainly, "no".

Can we do a swap, OP? I'll give you all the sexy and fertile women in their early twenties who are after me, and you give me all the society ladies, respectable and stuff, you know, erudite and elegant, who are your admirers, in exchange.

The OP deactivated so it's kind of a moot point...but I DID look at his profile and despite that we weren't far apart in age, I quickly saw that I was too old and unsuitable in that I wasn't a young baby-momma. Too bad for him - and good luck to him. Be realistic, people!

This is simply not true. I'm currently involved with a 22 year old that I met when she was 19. I am 28 years older than her, was working a minimum wage job and had no prospects for the future.

We enjoy an active and varied sex life, live happily in a small apartment with our one year old son.

I'll admit that not every young lady is interested in dating a man this much older than herself. However, there are some that are tired of the boys in their age group an are looking for a confident, interesting, "real man."