i see allot of men searching for younger girls

can someone tell me why men in general are looking for that tight young 18 petite or what ever.

i mean like yeah a few years younger or older is ok but when you're 50+ looking for an 18 year old girl can i just ask why i mean like i wouldn't mind dating a girl that's like 26 but when theirs a 30-35+ year gap in age difference what would you really have in common or what would you talk about.

and for the women searching for younger men same thing.

this is mostly towards men but i'd like to hear some women's perspective on this post.

Edit: if anyone gets offended by my question i'm truly sorry i'm just curious is too why.

It's because of our evolutionary programming. Once a woman reaches an age where she may have trouble giving birth to healthy children she becomes less attractive. Her breasts begin to sag, she puts on weight, her hair may thin etc.

As men we are capable of fathering healthy children at a much older age. So, we look for a woman that would be a good vessel for our seed. This has nothing to do with whether we actually want to have children or not. We are still programmed to find healthy, young women more attractive than mature women.

This is also why women spend more money on beauty products and plastic surgery than men do.

Men, on the other hand, spend more money on stupid sports cars and expensive dates. They foolishly think young women are prostitutes and can be easily bought.

Actually, I too have wondered about that. What COULD they have in common to talk about? It could be more about the physical. You never know. lol

I wouldn't know.

thanks for the feedback.

and i don't want to offend no one by me saying this but.

if anyone men are of the age of 40+ please just reply or even just pm me if you're shy or embarrassed to say

but are you looking for younger women just to show off that you got a young girl, just trying to get laid.

and if you are a older man and have dated a girl in that age range could you tell me what you guys did like what you had in common.

i'm only 19 and curious i like to ask stupid questions like this all the time and i figured ask older people who might know or who has experienced dating someone younger that could share experience

thanks everyone who read this and who was willing to take time out of their day to reply.

She was 34 and a historian. We enjoyed the same mix of music and the same activities (I'm active) in life. Sometimes we read each others minds.

thank you for sharing i really appreciate it.

I do enjoy going out with a young, attractive woman on my arm. Don't you want to be seen with a woman that makes other men jealous?

But, this isn't the primary reason I'm with her. I just prefer the youthful energy of young women.

thanks for sharing

no offence but i could care less what other people see me with nor do i care if their jealous cause i'd be a young beautiful women i could care less about looks i look for personality not attractiveness.
but hey if you wanna be seen with a young beautiful women more power to yah

You're missing the point. I live a happy life. If I am living a happy life, people that are living an unhappy life will be jealous or bitter. It really doesn't matter to my happiness if they are jealous or not.

But, when a man looks at me and thinks "I want the life he has," it just feels good.

She married someone 5 years older than me.

if a 50+ man finds a 18 yr old girl to date him.....


he ain't plannin on talkin.........

Much!!!!!

ya i know that but when you're not hands to jesus what would you talk about...

MY HERO

Quick somone grab him, he's a good one..

I believe it is because older men are trying to hold on to the feeling of being young. We all know why a very young girl would go with an old guy. The old guy does not care how foolish he appears because he can not take his money with him so he buys a young girl, essentially paying her to make him feel young.
You are correct, they have nothing in common, they are not soul mates, it is not a beautiful love affair...its about the man wanting to feel young and the young girl wanting his money. that is all.

Are you inferring that my girlfriend is a prostitute?

As for why an older man may prefer a younger woman, perhaps he simply likes the feel of young, firm flesh. I can't think of anything an older woman can do that a young one cannot and she'll look better while doing it.

What about this couple? Is Angelina also a prostitute?

as an adult, I dont really understand it either

I would imagine some men need more of a daughter than a partner,, someone that will just admire and mind them and be fit enough to cater to their needs,, in return for a few gifts and compliments,,and not much more in terms of expectation,


and some girls need more of a father,,,,than a partner, someone who will spoil them with the material and treat them like the finest thing on earth, stroke their ego, and not much more in terms of expectation,,,

You don't have to understand it. I don't understand homosexuality, but I don't assume those involved in it have some unresolved mental issues.

But, let's look at it from the other side. What does a mature woman have to offer that a young one doesn't?

experience, responsibility, stability,,,

usually, an older person will be more LIKELY Than a younger person to have developed those things,,,,


in the case of Angelina, she had all those things by 25 when she married a man 20 years her senior (Still didnt work for them apparently, but it lasted a minute in hollywood terms)

MOST 18 year olds, as the op asked about, have NONE of those things,,,

A mature man would have gained enough experience of his own and doesn't have a need for any a woman may bring to a relationship.

A young woman can be just as responsible and stable as anyone. These things have nothing to do with age and are more components of a personality. I know plenty of irresponsible and unstable people in their 40s and 50s.