HAHA- made ya click.

I'm new... here. And apparently this place is chock full of ads pointing to real date sites.

It's almost a clicking minefield.

Anyway I'm lookin probably for you, but not finding you - yet so I'm going to slowly branch out over as many sights as I can that actually work.


share your experiences?
I'd like to know what gets results in the shortest time period.
Not getting any younger.

Other than that, start messaging people. Though, if you want instant gratification, try a bar.

Bars tend to attract alcoholics - not good women.

Do you hit bars for your needs?
I really don't drink, and the few bars I've been to don't strike me as comfortable or cost effective.

Met one person at the park, but I work too much now-a-days.

I go to bars with friends to listen to music and have a few drinks. I wasn't aware that made me an alcoholic or not a good woman, though.

If you work too much to meet people in person, how does that differ when meeting them online? You still need time to actually see them in person.

Just time.
Travel, to the bar, park, find a seat, try to find someone to talk to that isn't already having a conversation...

I got a reply here in what 3 minutes?
- I can't even find my keys that fast.

And I'm traveling quite a bit lately.

I don't even want to go over walking into the wrong bar...

So, you don't want to put any time into meeting someone. Got it. Good luck!

You're only considered an alcoholic "on paper", and that doesn't make you a bad woman, just means what's "on paper" and reality are not usually the same thing.

I'm right there with you sister!!! Some of my friends play in bands & sometimes I don't even drink.... I just go to dance & hang with them!!!

So are you looking for someone, or anyone? I am confused here. Anyway, welcome to the site. I hope you find what you seek.