Topic: "let him roam & he will find his way home"
starsandhearts
Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 418 |
does anyone allow their spouse to "roam"?
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lilott
Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 1993 |
Don't have one of those.
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TexasScoundrel
Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693 |
Allow? Do you really think you can stop him if it's what he wants?
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starsandhearts
Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 418 |
or siggnificant other...what if one wanted to be allowed to have one nite stands then come home to u.does anyone agree with that? shouldn't both be able to do that if one says they are going to & not going to change???
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starsandhearts
Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 418 |
allow was the wrong choice of words sorry...yeah no stoppin a person if they don't want to
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msharmony
Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 32474 |
I wouldnt, at this point, tolerate infidelity
I have in the past,,,, |
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TexasScoundrel
Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693 |
QUOTE: or siggnificant other...what if one wanted to be allowed to have one nite stands then come home to u.does anyone agree with that? shouldn't both be able to do that if one says they are going to & not going to change??? Some people want it all. Sex with whoever AND someone to come home to. Greedy IMHO. Live alone and have as many guests as you want, or commit to a mutually exclusive relationship. Just always be honest about which way you're leaning at all times. |
caliente42
Joined Fri 06/15/12 Posts: 120 |
QUOTE: does anyone allow their spouse to "roam"? I don't believe in letting my man roam. I would also be afraid of what he might bring back home! |
totage
Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 22875 |
QUOTE: does anyone allow their spouse to "roam"? Since I don't put her on a leash or anything, I suppose so. I'm not into playing games or anything, if she doesn't want to be with me, she can always leave. Likewise, if I ever want to leave, I will. |
kartagane
Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 4657 |
QUOTE: I don't believe in letting my man roam. I would also be afraid of what he might bring back home! Yeah, KFC yuck! Anyway, no I don't believe in it. If you want to roam, go ahead, just go away and do it. |
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Rawrr_Girl
Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 3492 |
I thought this would be a thread about dogs. My apologies :) No. Unless it wasa fwb.
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TxsGal3333
Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 57935 |
Hummm all I will say is if they roam from my bed, they want have to find their way home ....
 
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PacificStar48
Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 8955 |
Kind of comes down to the thought "You endores what you allow." Would seem incredibly stupid to me to endores cheating with the risks being what they are. And I think if you are giving what you got in a relationship you should expect the same.
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blueeyes2000
Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1505 |
QUOTE: does anyone allow their spouse to "roam"? I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who even wanted to 'roam'. To me, if you are in a relationship with someone,that's the only person you should be with. If you want to be with other men/women, you shouldn't be in a relationship. but to each their own I guess. |
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starsandhearts
Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 418 |
oh its not from lack of gettin any from me. we have plenty of sex,he just says its something different. that he loves me & comes home to me.....blah blah blah. i agree with u guys. we have been together for 10years & have 2 kiddos.
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