My 13 year old daughter has a 16 year old boy obsessed with her. She rejected his advances and his friendship. Now at night time he has started egging our house and letterbox as well as leaving unpleasant surprises in our letterbox. What would you do?

Some facts. He is diagnosed a schizophrenic. His parents will be unhelpful to approach. I know him well enough to approach him personally.

call the police immediately, file a report.
they will warn him and his parents should
it happen again, charges will be brought
against him for harassment and destruction
of property.
also a restraining order might be necessary.

I have thought of that. But he is the son of a leader in a notorious gang here. There will be consequences. Hmm?

What a waste of eggs. If you know him well enough to approach him, perhaps you can persuade him to bring those eggs inside and cook him a meal out of them instead?? From what you've said of the gang thing, I would imagine most of the problem lies with not getting enough TLC at home. Notorious??...ima thinking Mongys??...who, like most gangs deal their own justice out and have little, if any respect for local law enforcement.

Mongrel Mob. I had opened my home to him & we like each other. But these two kids stir each other on. He insults her on facebook & lies about my baby. I am going to approach the guy & have a heart to heart. I really like this kid. Hell has no fury like....

then give him hell, no let up. stay on him,
calm him and take advantage of the situation.
feed him your thoughts and show him the
error of his ways. good luck...

I'd buy some weaponry and use it, and I'm an expert sharpshooter (easy to get with grenades!).

That is, file a police report and use it afterwards as warranted. A big shotgun works wonders for changing peoples minds.

But hey, sometimes I can be a little bit radical.

Lol. Crazy hippie.

a well placed bear trap should do the trick

I could probably stick a mousetrap in the letterbox. We dont have bears in New Zealand.

Hmm yeah...the word "notorious" gave it away. I'll msg you with a possible solution if and when you think things are likely to get out of control. I'll need personal details though, hence the private msg.

Thanks you guys. For each one of you.

Did the hobbits eat them?

But of course silly.

And don't forget to document everything! Times, dates, photos, etc., just in case. Wishing you all the best!

Ooops, never thought of taking pictures. The egg has been washed and scrubbed off. Darn!

boys will be boys. only thing that will get a boys mind off a girl is another girl

in the mean time, let your daughter drain this punk for everything he's got. let her go out with him, but be sure she brings along several of her friends (his treat of course)and that they exclude him as much as possible during the outing. get your daughter to ask him for gifts, not too expensive, and when he gives them to her make sure she regifts, or throws them away where he can see it. the more she runs over this psychos heart the better. like have him get her a cellular telephone (even a cheap one) and never call or text, and only answer his calls occasionally to say she's busy. remember that you are dealing with a twisted mind, so whatever you think a rational person should do, think about doing the opposite

plan b: move to texas

Lol ese. She avoids him like a plague now. She is very fiesty & will just punch him in the face if he humiliates her in public. :-( I think his feelings of rejection will pass if she listens to my advice & ignores him and his actions. He baits her though.

That is one reason I told a stepdaughter she couldn't invite to the house or hang out with one kid. He was 15 at the time.

I gave him a ride home after picking the kids up from the creek.

I asked him about his MS13 tat he had on his arm. He said he was in and nobody messed around on his block.

Told the stepdaughter. Under no circumstances would he be welcome in my house nor would I give him rides. Don't even ask.

They have little value for life and will hurt or kill just for their 'respect in the gang.