:o( i love her so dearly my princess but she either hates me or has played me for a fool 15mnths and i took on her little girl as mine looked after her cooked for her dressed her kissed all her little bumps n scrapes took her to school wiped her *** changed her nappies basicly left my life behind and for what ? to be shyt on like i ment nothing or her little girl who did love me to bits and its killing me not seeing her omg i want out this life ASAP i cant take much more :O(......

HELP ME !!!

I'm very sorry for your pain. I'm sure everyone here can relate to the pain of being dumped at one time or another. All I can say is....one day at a time. The pain eventually lessens and life does go on. Just don't let this experience make you so bitter you close yourself off to future possibilities.

Time heals a lot of things!

awww thanks ruth i will try ;)xx

and also thanks to you christina ;o) just feel so used but still love her :o(...

BTW welcome to mingle.

You might find that these pages of threads might be a help to you during this time as there are tons of people who have been through tons of ups and downs. Try not to put yourself in a spot to where you feel alone right now. Your feelings could get the best of you so better to try to put yourself in a state of mind that can get to a positive place again so that the healing can take place.

I'm no expert on the subject but I've watched quite a few people here go through similar things and some turn negative where others see the light of being positive and realising their self worth.

There is no easy way to break up with someone. Unless you're easy. Taking life in baby steps can help. Try not to take on anything stressful or overwhelming. I just sound like a dating article now. . Out of all my ex's, there is a certain one who will always have a piece of my heart. That doesn't mean I'm not allowed to move on. Don't rush into a new relationship, either. Just take your time :)

So sorry to see you get your "Daddy Heart" beat up but try to focus on the fact that you kept this little angel safe and loved and started her with the nurtureing that will help her more than words will ever say.

And look forward to when you will someday be a loved Spouse, and Dad, with rights and valuable experience under your belt.

Also keep in mind how much damage you would do to and absolute innocent if you did any harm to yourself after your Daddy duty. I guarantee you it would hurt this child terribly and she is already probably hurting enough.

If you do the right thing this child will most likely come find you eventually. It hopefully will not take 46 years, like it did for me, but with social media and maintaining a phone number you can make it easier.

hi thanks all for your kind words and advise i just feel so werthless she wont even speak to me at all ...... @ mg1959 , Rawrr_girl , pasificstar48 it means alot to me that you took time out of your day to try and help me thanks millions

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