I attract men who are looking for a care taker. And, I always respond because that's what I do naturally. (I'm a Cancer). Of course, it can't last because it's not an equal relationship and I don't have the energy I did when I was in my 20's. But, looking back at every relationship I've ever been in, it's always been that I am drawn to (and they are drawn to me) a guy who needed "saving".

I guess understanding this pattern is the first step in changing it.

So, what's your pattern? What kind of person are you attracting?

Those who are far, far away...sigh.

I don't know that I attract just one kind of man, as they all seem pretty different.

I seem to be an a$$hole magnet

When I attract one I will let you know.

Bad boys with brains....Thankfully

douches without beards.

Nobody.

I don't drive vehicles that claim to make a statement I make allot of money. In other words they are not brand new, nor big gas guzzling 4x4 behemoths. I don't live in a house that has at least 3,000 square feet of living space - if not larger. Tops that I'm not an office worker.

Simply put I'm a factory worker doing far more than I will ever get paid for. Live in a 980 sq ft single wide mobile home on just over an acres of wooded property. Drive a cheap "little" Ford pickup and a rusty Chevrolet front wheel drive car for the winter months. Who the @#$%^&* wants to go out with a cheapskate penny pincher like that??

I was tempted to Google that to see what would come up. But but then what if that gets logged somewhere forever

Weirdo tree huggers who don't watch movies.

movie enthusiasts that 'accidentally' shave off beards.

Technology haters that keep saying they'll visit Oregon next week, no next week, no next week....

Apparently I attract the wrong ones.

Psycho's and Maniac's.........
One and the same I guess.

They seem to be drawn to me by some dark force.

Well, if you would simply move eastward a few hundred miles . . .

kindle users that don't understand what next weekend means.

The kind of person that I attract usually carries a gun and a badge.

Oh, wait. This thread is about dating.
Never mind.

Allow me!!!
This is what came up LOL
******* magnet 5 up, 2 down

people, mostly girls, who are good but tend attract a lot of ******** for being cute or pretty and kind.
Olivia is a sweet and gorgeous girl. Too bad ******** seem to revolve around her for her kindness hence being an ******* magnet.

I attract the person who have a gold heart knows how to care and love and sweet and its easy for me to love him even no matter for me his situation even i know his fat or he cant walk good because hi is sick.I will love him back from the bottom of my heart and im not gonna look someone else...I will extra care for him no matter what happen..

Stephen Colbert fans who make empty promises to rake leaves.