Topic: I am a single mother and I am proud of it
Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
I'm a single parent and you have to realize that in order to really know me, you have to know my kid, it's a package deal because they aren't going anywhere. Some freaking men!!! This man was looking at me and saw me with my daughter, he looked like he wanted come and talk to me but he chicken out when he saw my daughter holding my hands. A'shole when he replay I do not date ladies with teen......grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Excuse my bad talk!!! But you will be mad??? |
whatitis1
Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62 |
Its just as hard for single dads.
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: Its just as hard for single dads. Yes being parent mom or dad it a great role we need to do for our kids. Love them and support them. I know its a lot ppl who do not understand... |
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whatitis1
Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Its just as hard for single dads. Yes being parent mom or dad it a great role we need to do for our kids. Love them and support them. I know its a lot ppl who do not understand... |
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Its just as hard for single dads. Yes being parent mom or dad it a great role we need to do for our kids. Love them and support them. I know its a lot ppl who do not understand... I know right... It's hard to watch your teenage daughter struggle with emotions, boys and friends. Lessons of life are hard and cruel! Some ppl needs to be our shoe to better understand us..But again also when someone comes and says "who told you to have kids" I feel like kicking their ***....is not what I was trying to tell them I was trying to say is a hard role.... |
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StillLooking29
Joined Tue 04/20/10 Posts: 696 |
 keep up the good work....hardest job ever!
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Ladywind7
Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 3006 |
Having a child actually teaches you so much. Your character grows better and you learn unconditional love. Children are our greatest blessing ever.
 Who cares what people think, though their judgements can hurt.
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whatitis1
Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62 |
QUOTE: Having a child actually teaches you so much. Your character grows better and you learn unconditional love. Children are our greatest blessing ever. Who cares what people think, though their judgements can hurt.
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: Having a child actually teaches you so much. Your character grows better and you learn unconditional love. Children are our greatest blessing ever. Who cares what people think, though their judgements can hurt.
You are so right thank you so much!!!! Yep, I'm going to be one of those mom's that tells my daughter to push back when she's been pushed. If she's anything like me, everyone better run and hide!  She is my heart, she is my soul, she is my life, she is my love, and she is my reason for being. she is my DAUGHTER.
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: keep up the good work....hardest job ever!
Awwww.....thank you!!! 
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josie68
Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6172 |
Don't worry about the wankers, there are heaps of great blokes out there.
I have 6 kids and was a single mum, it is heaps better to just wait for the ones who are happy to love you and your kids. |
oldhippie1952
Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 12799 |
QUOTE: I'm a single parent and you have to realize that in order to really know me, you have to know my kid, it's a package deal because they aren't going anywhere. Some freaking men!!! This man was looking at me and saw me with my daughter, he looked like he wanted come and talk to me but he chicken out when he saw my daughter holding my hands. A'shole when he replay I do not date ladies with teen......grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Excuse my bad talk!!! But you will be mad??? I love children. I feel it is their loss. |
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: Don't worry about the wankers, there are heaps of great blokes out there. I have 6 kids and was a single mum, it is heaps better to just wait for the ones who are happy to love you and your kids. Thax for sharing sometimes I believe I will not ever meet someone who can be my partner but not my welfare I been doing great being a mom in providing for her.
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totage
Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 22875 |
QUOTE: I'm a single parent and you have to realize that in order to really know me, you have to know my kid, it's a package deal because they aren't going anywhere. Some freaking men!!! This man was looking at me and saw me with my daughter, he looked like he wanted come and talk to me but he chicken out when he saw my daughter holding my hands. A'shole when he replay I do not date ladies with teen......grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Excuse my bad talk!!! But you will be mad??? Why be mad or take it personal? Obviously he wasn't a match if he turned away due to seeing your child with you. Seems like it was a stranger, why would it be a personal thing? Maybe he just doesn't want to be involved with children, not everyone is good or comfortable with kids. |
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: I'm a single parent and you have to realize that in order to really know me, you have to know my kid, it's a package deal because they aren't going anywhere. Some freaking men!!! This man was looking at me and saw me with my daughter, he looked like he wanted come and talk to me but he chicken out when he saw my daughter holding my hands. A'shole when he replay I do not date ladies with teen......grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Excuse my bad talk!!! But you will be mad??? I love children. I feel it is their loss. And I will too!!!! |
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: I'm a single parent and you have to realize that in order to really know me, you have to know my kid, it's a package deal because they aren't going anywhere. Some freaking men!!! This man was looking at me and saw me with my daughter, he looked like he wanted come and talk to me but he chicken out when he saw my daughter holding my hands. A'shole when he replay I do not date ladies with teen......grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Excuse my bad talk!!! But you will be mad??? Why be mad or take it personal? Obviously he wasn't a match if he turned away due to seeing your child with you. Seems like it was a stranger, why would it be a personal thing? Maybe he just doesn't want to be involved with children, not everyone is good or comfortable with kids. I am not saying all men or even ladies are the same Cat...Right you are right...but I been in a dating site to long not here but another one they are some men occasionally who are really not into dating a single mother. They might think I am looking for daddy which I am not......
Edited by Lit_Bella on Thu 08/16/12 05:06 PM
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totage
Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 22875 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I'm a single parent and you have to realize that in order to really know me, you have to know my kid, it's a package deal because they aren't going anywhere. Some freaking men!!! This man was looking at me and saw me with my daughter, he looked like he wanted come and talk to me but he chicken out when he saw my daughter holding my hands. A'shole when he replay I do not date ladies with teen......grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Excuse my bad talk!!! But you will be mad??? Why be mad or take it personal? Obviously he wasn't a match if he turned away due to seeing your child with you. Seems like it was a stranger, why would it be a personal thing? Maybe he just doesn't want to be involved with children, not everyone is good or comfortable with kids. Cat...Right you are right...but I been in a dating site to long not here but another one they are some men occasionally who are really not into dating a single mother. They might think I am looking for daddy which I am not...... I wouldn't view it as a put down, but as a favor. They're showing you they're not what you are seeking without wasting your time. Trust me, there's plenty of good men that are willing and capable of being involved with a single mother. |
Ifetomiwa1
Joined Thu 08/16/12 Posts: 1 |
It does nt mean anytin wat mata is luv
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Lit_Bella
Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 42 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I'm a single parent and you have to realize that in order to really know me, you have to know my kid, it's a package deal because they aren't going anywhere. Some freaking men!!! This man was looking at me and saw me with my daughter, he looked like he wanted come and talk to me but he chicken out when he saw my daughter holding my hands. A'shole when he replay I do not date ladies with teen......grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Excuse my bad talk!!! But you will be mad??? Why be mad or take it personal? Obviously he wasn't a match if he turned away due to seeing your child with you. Seems like it was a stranger, why would it be a personal thing? Maybe he just doesn't want to be involved with children, not everyone is good or comfortable with kids. Cat...Right you are right...but I been in a dating site to long not here but another one they are some men occasionally who are really not into dating a single mother. They might think I am looking for daddy which I am not...... I wouldn't view it as a put down, but as a favor. They're showing you they're not what you are seeking without wasting your time. Trust me, there's plenty of good men that are willing and capable of being involved with a single mother. Thax
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irfan4u73
Joined Fri 08/17/12 Posts: 1 |
Can we become friends?
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