I understand what you mean. I'm easily misunderstood and have been accused of such and unintentionally tend to make women feel as though they have to be perfect or live up to high expectations because they feel I'm so perfect.

controlling behavior

bad attitudes about women in general

statements or an attitude that women are crazy or mentally unstable just because they are female (as an example)

negativity

personal drama - if they have a lot of it going down - I do not wanna be the next player on the stage....