I wonder!! You will see a woman with the profile topic ''any real man?''
And a man the vice-versal, how come we can't hook up easily? Infact finding that special one on mingle2 is very difficult!

Because those are just one-liners that most people put up because it pops into their head...That's not even taking into account the absolute ridiculous nature by which that line is defined by some people, and then you have other people that have no f****** clue what the hell they want anyway that use it because it looks good.

I hear your pain, and I can identify with it.

My problem is exactly the opposite. I seek an unreal woman, who seeks an unreal man. I have often been accused or suspected of not being an earthling, of having come here from a different planet. Often enough I have also been accused of being just a fantasy, a phantom of the imagination of others, not being real, just being a mirage of sorts.

You see, we each have our crosses to bear. You bear the cross of reality, I bear the cross of unreality.

Neither is better or worse than the other one, scientists encalm us.

So I have the advantage that when I die, I just go back to whence I came from: ex nihil, ad usque nihil. You, on the other hand, have the tough task of decomposing to do first. The numero uno deliverable on your agenda after you die.

Well. I did not choose to be born this way. I'd rather be Mick Jagger or Wilt Chamberlain. But hey.

That depends on ur definition of 'hook up.' If ur looking for an easy hookup I would suggest adultfriendfinder.com. Ads for that site seems to be popping up everywhere.

Good luck!

i have found out that the easier something is, the less it's worth...careful what you wish for, it might come true...

Well said!

I agree! I feel that I have been good-humored, pleasant, and quite clear about what I'm looking for in a man, yet I have a lot of emails from guys who clearly do not want what I want. I'm not sure why they bother with me... or why it's so hard to find a partner?

Great! Great!! Stuff thank you all

I agree, very well said. But it somehow cheapens itself... by its own virtue of being said very well. Too readily available for consumption. It takes not much effort to turn the wisdom of it into internalized insight. Ugh.

Yes, too many people playing too many games. I have exchanged mail with quite a few good women but they are so far away. Not easy to find one within easy driving distance. You may find what you want and not even know it until it is too late.

Or, like you said, until it's too far. She is too far, or she is too far gone.

Anything worth having is worth working for . . .no one said it would be easy. But the more effort you out into it the more you'll get out of it. Good luck.

We tend to get caught up with the men and women that we create in our mind and set unrealistic expectations for those in real life.

Well said.

This been said already: "Well said." With about the same level of quality.

Because they live too far away.

That too.

"That too" was better said than "well said".

My motto has been always, "better said than done." (I.e. like "you rot in hell" or "go and do your mama" or "gag me with a spoon".)

have said it befor and saying it again.. The only only time love works for persons in different countries and continent is when they agree to get married.. Met my ex online 2years ago and after months of talking and chatting we got engaged.. To cut story short.. 2months to getting married i found out hes been married several times with 5kids by different women.. I broke up. He was from kileen, texas. So back to your question, at your age, looking for love outside your country is out of the question.. And even from girls in your country, e no go easy.. You know wetin i dey talk na.. These oyibo them way de here no go give you face so forget am. Look for chikala manually

Sounds like a bunch of hate going around in the forums. Lol.