Topic: need advice
edmguy94
Joined Sat 08/25/12 Posts: 20 |
I was wondering if I could get some advice, I'm a single father and I have been single for almost 2 yrs,I'm a really nice guy but I have been out of the dating game for 16yrs and I'm not very good at meeting women lol,I know this sounds stupid but I am a shy guy and I really dont know how to approach or contact someone that I think I might be interested in getting to know.
I'm really tired of being alone, soo that being said any advice you may have would be a great help to this shy guy who would love to be able to find someone,thanks for reading , please help me lol |
sweetestgirl11
Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22340 |
start slowly with a message that is not too long but makes it clear that you have read her profile - or found what she said in the threads is interesting & why
make friends they do make the best lovers..........welcome 
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edmguy94
Joined Sat 08/25/12 Posts: 20 |
ok great I will try that thanks soo much
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sweetestgirl11
Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22340 |
ur welcome & good luck
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25434 |
QUOTE: I was wondering if I could get some advice, I'm a single father and I have been single for almost 2 yrs,I'm a really nice guy but I have been out of the dating game for 16yrs and I'm not very good at meeting women lol,I know this sounds stupid but I am a shy guy and I really dont know how to approach or contact someone that I think I might be interested in getting to know. I'm really tired of being alone, soo that being said any advice you may have would be a great help to this shy guy who would love to be able to find someone,thanks for reading , please help me lol On here, I suggest reading profiles first. Find someone you think is interesting and start a conversation based on what you found interesting. Just make sure you give her something to respond to as well. |
seeking_serendipity
Joined Sun 08/26/12 Posts: 21 |
hey buddy, correct me if i am wrong...but my usp is simple that every one is perfect in his/her own little ways...for eg. while you may not be able to tell anything about the polotical party system in india but you may well know more then anyone a zillion things about concrete..
but normally many of us forget what they actually are...the kind of persona they possess, and instead try to portray something else... base line is, acting martin luther king will not make you one..but just being mr edmguy surely will impress someone...read your profile..your words really are good enough to give a basic clue into you..so just chill out...think calmly about how u converse with a normal friend who you are paly with and then possibly try to write a few lines to the girl u are interested in , in the same manner..mind you, most girls dont want a brad pitt or george clooney ...they just want a guy...and even if one goes by looks then unlike me, u sure are nothing short of robert downey junior.. best o luck |