I tried to maintain a relationship but she always leaves me. what am i doing wrong? I gave her gifts, made her feel special, loved her with all my heart, used communication, used respect, did not cheat, does not lie, or used her for sex. I just dont understand what went wrong. :-( Can anybody answer this question?

No one can really answer that objectively as none of us were there, however, it may not be that either of you did or said anything so wrong, it may just be that you weren't right for each other. Just try to learn what you can from the experience, stay positive, and move on.

her loss right bro

How is your personal hygiene ?

that tears iti'm sick of you nice guys giving your all to women and them just reaching into your chest, yanking your heart out, spitting on said heart, and laughing as they watch the tears form in your eyes. yes those unblinking eyes, burning as they are fixed on your feeble heart. each beat coming further and further apart, until the blood starved tissue goes limp in her claw like hand. it's payback time my nice guy friend. cut her off, i mean really cut her off. no calls, text, email, pages, snail mail, shout outs on the radio, telegrams, strip-a-grams, flower deliveries, tell a friend, tell a friend of a friend, or even thoughts about this emotional vampire

now grab enough alcohol to test the limits of alcohol poisoning in your body (or said drug of choice) and get comfortably numb. tomorrow is another day (you may have to repeat the comfortably numb thing for a few days, weeks, years, or a lifetime, depending on your tolerance)

i like how you said everything but i dont do drugs and i am not old enough to drink.

I guess all that positive reinforcement doesn't hack it for some broads. If I may speak frankly she sounds like a girl who might get off on that bad boy type. You the "you deserve better than me" guy. She digs those losers.

well my friend, the post was meant as a joke. in reality drinking or drugging your problems will not make them go away. i guarantee i guarantee that you will have women problems the rest of your life. men spend an awful lot of time searching for a woman, when they find one, then they spend an awful lot of time trying to find time for themselves. best bet is to find something to fill the time you would have been spending with your girl. i find listening to music is a good way to pass some time and occasionally some lyrics will speak to you
(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

http://youtu.be/iafnAiYDpXM
here's some old school april wine:
Time and time again I see
A love that seemed strong, was not meant to be
Broken hearts don't always mend
Left too unsure to try love again

Just between you and me
Baby I know our love will be
Just between you and me
Always I know our love will be
Just between you and me

Lovers often seem to say
Hearts can be blind to love gone astray
Always it's the same old song
Someone's been hurt by a love that's gone wrong

Just between you and me
Baby I know our love will be
Just between you and me
Always I know our love will be
Just between you,
Just between you and me

Words are sometimes hard to find
The silence can be so unkind
You always help me find my way
The love that we share grows stronger each day

Just between you and me
Baby I know our love will be
Just between you and me
Always I know our love will be
Seulement entre toi et moi
Means that our love will always be
Just between you and me
Baby I know our love will be
Just between you,
Just between you and me

In my other relationships money was a big ordeal. The longest relationshipi have been in was 3 years and i had to break up with another girl because of the simple fact, i needed more money.
I swear money is evil just like the devil.

you got the Wrong Girlfriend.

Doesn't matter that you did (what you felt) were all the right things. If she doesn't truly love you, want to be with you, and all that jazz.....well guess what? She is gonna leave. Just don't get into that mode of thinking all women are like this. Someone will come along who will love and appreciate you.

But on a serious note: my advice is forget about your hurt ego for a moment there, toughen up and find someone that will accept you for who you are, appreciate you for all that you've given her...someone who will give you the genuine love you want and deserve. And it's not the end of the world - you're still young. If you don't find her now, you will find her before you die.

Next time use her for sex. They like that too.

Look guys....
Women like a chase just as much as a man does. Stop being so perfect. Make us work a bit for it. When you are too nice..the respect goes out the window. Yes ..that's unfair but it is the truth.

Think about it... you get a easy chick all nice and stuff and use her..then leave. But a woman who makes you want more from her who doesn't give it up easy..you chase and want her more.
You can't buy love.

Be smart when you are interested in someone.

No need to be so nice to a person who does not earn that respect.

Here it is! Don't start spending all your money on someone you have only dated for a short time.Also,if you call all the time,and appear needy or clingy,that can become too much for someone to handle.

she just not into you.. Simple. Look else where

Look at the bright side Dude......

Ya didn't marry her.....(no alimony)
Ya didn't give her your House........( no shared assets)
Ya didn't have kids with her.....(no child support or custody battles)

I'd say ya came out of it ahead of the game.

Learn the lessons here and move on to the next......

And..........

NEVER make the above mistakes!!!!

Good Luck!!

Seems to me she found someone new, it happens, don't let it get you down there are a million other ladies out there and you are in the right place to Mingle.

LOL!! He had it coming!