i am thinking about de activating . . . tons of emails, tons of these kooky mutual matches . . . my emails are not from those on my matches . . . so are they interested in being on my mutual match list or being an actual mutual match.

you know who you guys are . . . let me know

should i stay or should i go?

u should stay

I have seen the same thing. I have men on my Mutual Match; but, they never contact me. I don't understand that.

My e-mails are from people not on the Mutual Match list.

Hang in there...it can only get worse..... :-)

How is that?

With only 3 posts? No doubt---stay! And post, post, post! Get in there, girl and let us see what you are made of!!

Mutual Matches are those that you have clicked on as well as the guy/girl. The female is ALSO permitted to contact the mail.
Or has the 21st century not arrived in your neck of the woods yet.

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I can relate to the crazy emails and almost deactivated myself,but you need to stay there are a lot of truly good people here as you will find out.

Don't go, Cha!

Like everything else worthwhile, you've gotta give it some time. You've only posted 3 times. Once I hit my 100th post (and, believe me, that doesn't take long), people started contacting ME! I haven't met that special someone--yet--but I've made lots of special friends here. And THAT'S something I'll always be proud of!

HERE'S TO YOU, EVERYBODY!

You never know when that someone else might be here...

So stay... and while you are waiting make friend's!

you've only just begun to see what this sight is like.Jump in head first and see what happens. You might be surprised.

Hi newguy- long time no see!

Have any of you looked at her pic's and she is asking why she gets so many so call emails. Ladys, to tell the truth and knowing how most guys reall are on the net. if you don't want bad attention then don't put up almost nude pic's

@ Shadow's comment

If you are looking for something sleezy...you are doing a good job by the pics you post.

I think if you want to meet someone you have to get out there and chat in the threads. I see a lot of people have 1 or 3 times where they posted. How do you really expect to meet anyone?

you should diff stay ....

You go and my swonnicles wil start revolving in an anti clockwise direction causing the drongles to drop off, leading to a case of swoodleitus.

DEactivation is NOT repeat NOT an option!

Geez.....who wants to date a woman who cant make up her own mind?

Why do you need strangers to tell you to stay on the site or not?



Your pictures are beautiful, quite arty and joyful, I am sure, you and the friend who took them had fun doing them...

As to whether they are too sexual, pfffttt! You are obviously comfortable in your own body....please remember you have to take the bad with the good....and mail will be like that, no matter what pics you have up.


Some men find a hairclip, or a dodgers t shirt, or bare feet sexually stimulating...

Ummmmm, well if you are applying as a playboy bunny, those pics might be ok, but for here it is an asshole, wierdo, porno magnet. Cover up a bit more and you might get some more positive attention

As for leaving. Nawwww, don't give up just yet and take our critisizm (sp?) a positive. Stick around. Post and let people get to know you.