we all are attracted by certain things,i dont like everybodies mug and not everybody likes mine.

I am a year older than you Lissy....& looks are only one part of the package & that doesn't mean you have to be a beauty queen....a good person who knows & loves themself & has many interests & a thoughtful intelligence is so much more attractive to me & many of us older guys feel that way...

spoken like a true queer

Bluesky...i apologize for soldier, it seems when i am not baby sitting him he gets himself into trouble.

i dont go for looks most of the time i am just a typical guy that like her for who she is not what shes not ..I would love to live a day where i find the right kind of womens

you don't need to apologize for him...everyone is entitled to their own opinion....my manhood is not effected by his comments...
so give us your opinion on looks Soldier & maybe you should look in the mirror first...

my opinion on looks... hell I sleep with sheep... wtf do you want from me

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dam sam that was funny
if you think you are attractive then other people will think you are attractive...believe me i'm butt ass ugly but i act like i'm the sh*t and when i go out guys fall all over themselves to get to me...dates, marriage proposals ( ) gifts, #'s...it's crazy...i'm home on a sat nite only cuz i would rather stay home w/my kids and their friends ... i have plenty of time for dating when my kids have grown and gone one w/their lives...i date around my kids schedules...dang i didn't mean to write an entire book...i think i answered your q though
brenda

There has to be physical attraction. Would you walk up to an ugly person and hit on them? someone who you are not attracted to. I doubt anyone would do that.

hey sfa how are you???? i was just thinking about you today cuz i wanted to send you an xmas card when my daughter was writing writing cards to send to wounded soldiers at walter reed hosp...i'm glad to see you're well......brenda

Of course not, because beauty is relative. What looks good to me may not look good to you and vice versa. Everyone is the same way. There is no one set type of beauty- American society tries to emphasize one over the others, but everyone still has their preferences. God knows I do!

yep I am here I dont go by looks

I am sick of these pity threads.

Yes, I was a man who didn't go by looks. My wife cheated on me and my next girlfriend cheated on me and gave me an STD. They were both overweight and I was with them simply for their personality. The next time, I'll find a skinny woman with big fake boobs, because if I'm going to be cheated on again it will be by someone who is actually good looking. Yes, I'm a little bitter.

How about this, I will start a thread "Are there any women who aren't lying cheaters?"

what a horrible relationship that would be if theres no physical attraction...

there are far to many othe beautiful things about someone that make them loveable and beautifule then looks u just gotta get over your self and find them.

When I love someone, I find them irresistable physically. After my wife cheated on me, I couldn't find her attractive anymore. Love is the single most powerful aphrodisiac.

yes i agree, however that is a physicall attraction. I hardly believe someone can be comfotable with thier partner if thier not physically and emotionally attracted to them, i would also add in spiritually but that is a different topic.

Your initial question did not include the word "solely" on looks. It said, "Does 1 man exist that doesn't go by looks?"

Sorry, there isn't ONE person that doesn't go by that. It is called physical attraction. It is NOT the sole reason for choosing a mate but it is ONE reason and kind of important.

You tend to imply that every man is looking for a model. I like women with meat on their bones, curvy, "healthy" whatever you want to call it. I saw a guy's profile on another site that said, "If you are 30 pounds overweight, don't contact me" I knew a guy who dated 300 pound women and he was about 130 pounds. We are all attracted to different things.

I can tell you one thing I'm not attracted to, negative attitude towards the opposite sex.

Almost all of us on here have been burned in past relationships. Either you learn from it, move on and grow stronger or you wallow in it and act like a "victim".

Very true