I'm currently looking for a job, the economy isn't helping. I am a college graduate, a software engineer. I'm looking to start a career and a life. Haven't had many relationships, partly because I am an acquired taste. The other reason is that I focused on my school. I really believe that there is a woman that is strong willed, independent, not clingy or overly affectionate all the time. I am looking for someone to hang with, and have great conversations with. I am a listener, and am pretty empathetic. I tend to treat my friends like family, so I am very trustworthy as well as loyal.