ABOUT ME:
I am very down to earth sincere guy who appreciates a good woman. Someone who is loyal, faithful, loving, caring...... I am a divorced 38 yo with 1 son (6 yo) who means the world to me. I grew up in New Jersey. I am looking for someone who works hard but can really have fun ....That includes the beach, sports, outdoor activities. I want someone who I can talk to about my problems and she the same. I am a good listener and I am very patient and understanding. I am not perfect and dont expect my partner to be either. Im pretty good at understanding women (was married for 8 yrs, although this whole dating thing is throwing me for a loop). I am looking for someone who is very serious about meeting and not into games. I am looking for a long-term relationship....Anything else just ask.

My education:
Graduated from stafford university in PA with an accellerated bachelor's degree in natural sciences (pre-med). Attended Rutgers University for a 2nd degree in Nursing and research.

I have a private pilots license with several ratings: airplane, rotorcraft, lighter than air, and glider.

I have a cdl-a: with doubles and triples and hazzmat endorcements

on a side note:
im an intellectual...Who enjoys intelligent conversations. I can tell u how ur cell phone works or the differences between quantum mechanics and quantum physics. I love to read.....books by Stephen Hawking, Brian Greene....on black holes, anti-matter, curved space or anything to do with science interests me. I enjoy watching the Discovery Channel, The History Channel, TLC. love shows like "The Universe", "Inside the Wormhole", "The New Detectives", ect. I can build a computer and program it,,,more importantly,,,,,I can fix it..Lol. I tend to think very logically which sometimes gets me into trouble with women (I.E. Women tend to think with emotions rather than logic).....im very educated and can have an intelligent conversation on just about any subject. Im very shy in person at first....If your looking for a 5 min chemistry match,,,,ummmm,,,,,,its probably not going to happen with me. If you prefer a hot guy with muscles im not your man so dont waste your time.....however......if you are tired of stupid men who cant complete a sentence or your looking for someone to challenge you than i might just be for you.

my dating experiences:
I've been on a lot of dates in my time,,,,,its been my experience that women are very picky or selective about who they go out with and even more so when it comes to dating. Everyone seems to be so concerned about looks these days that people are missing what seems to be the most obvious keys to a successful relationship. Everyones so concerned about pics pics and even more pics. Intelligence and personality are two key elements in any relationship but seem to take a back seat. Sex appeal seems to be everyones priority. When it comes to dating guys tend to be the biggest idiots.....but most women are right up there with them. When women say they know in 5 seconds or less if they are going to sleep wih a guy then im sorry that has nothing to do with anything else but sex appeal....pretty shallow if you ask me. These are the same idiots that complain they cant find anyone. Ive had a lot of women complain about the dudes they are dating or have been in relationships with including the married ones. But it seems that women continue to make the same mistakes over and over again.... What I cant stand are the idiots,,,forgive me for being so harsh....That blame every guy for the mistakes made by them. Not all guys are the same.....Obviously...If u would just take a few minutes to get to know someones personality and intellect u might be surprised,,,,,,,,,,but if your so blinded by pysical attraction your going to be sadly disappointed again and again.

Don't be intimidated by what you read.....i dont put people down just because they may not be on the same page as i am. I love to teach things and explain to people how things work or help them use their complicated cell phone or computer....Im definitely not your aveage or typical guy.....i like sports, but it doesnt control my life. i dont memorize baseball stats or know who the best college football team is...i could care less. At this point there are more important things in life.


First Date: Should be someplace quiet a nice dinner.. go out 4 a cup of coffee. Someplace where we can talk and get 2 now one another and if there's anythg we can build on then we can go from there....