As I'm getting older, I'm thinking is the cup half empty or half full. If it's a full cup of coffee, I'm drinking it. Though, I've been through a lot of stuff that has happened in my life...I think that I'm glad I went through it all. Some things I would love to change, and others I don't mind that I went through.

When I first joined this site, I was so excited to get a response or even if someone would look. Now, I don't really even care because I've come to terms that I'm happy with or without someone. The problem is that all you women want to be asked out and chased. Been there and done that...not with the best experiences. I'm not gonna do that. If it's not going be, it's not going to be.

Life is not about "the wine and the dine." It's about the conversation, laughter, and the clean underwear(yes, gotta have those). Don't get me wrong, it's good to go out now and then. Then what? Nobody wants to get to know anyone anymore. It's about the connection. Sometimes, it takes more than one time to make a connection. You can't make an instant connection on first date. "Yay!!! Wow. He's everything I wanted! He gives me compliments." Then you realize after 2 or 3 dates that this man don't shower, has no manners, and flexes his muscles every chance he could. But there was that connection, right? Still, I guess it could happen. I guess.

And why am I still on here? Haven't figured that one out either. Doesn't matter. I guess I still enjoy the occasional response or the profile look. So, if you rush by me in your car to a complete stop. Just know I'm only seconds behind. Yet, that sentence made no sense.