I am looking for someone who is a friend first....Then see what happens from there....That is always the best foundation for any relationship....Someone I can laugh with....Have a shoulder to lean on or cry on. Someone who is self-aware of their own feelings and behaviors. I am a very romantic and loving person once I warm up. I am shy to start but warm up quickly when I feel comfortable. I know what I want and I go after it. I have been told that I am ALL heart. There is no holding back with me. I am upfront and honest and that's it. I keep being told I am TOO honest. Whatever that means. Is there such a thing? I am who I am. How can you claim to love someone if you don't truly know who they are because they don't or can't tell you everything about themselves.
I am not a partier, I like concerts, very seldom drink (have never been drunk) would like to experience a lot of different things that I have yet had the opportunity to do such as art, theater, etc but just mainly love to spend time with the people who are important to me as you never know how much time you have left with them. LIke to be outdoors.
Starting working out and jogging and that is important to me. Want to eat healthy so I can be healthy.
I love kids. I want someone who is very family oriented and likes to have get-togethers often with family and friends.
Taking trips together is a must as getting that alone time is very important and special even if it is only a dinner date etc. I have been married but lost my husband suddenly and have learned quite a lot about myself and relationships since his death. Life is too short!!!! People should appreciate the people in their life and more importantly....Let them know you do. That is one thing I knew....He loved me. That is so important. You may never have that chance to tell someone how you really feel or apologize for something that was petty and stupid. Live each day like it is your last and love the same way. I hope to meet someone that makes me happy just by walking into the room or simply by calling for no particular reason. I love the "little things" in life and have come to really appreciate those little moments that a lot of us take for granted.
I am looking for someone stable, with a good sense of humor, as I am huge cut-up most of the time, someone who can take a strong woman (as I am one) , I am independent and don't take any "crap" off people. I'm not rude or anything I just believe in standing up for what is right and not letting people run you over. I believe in "you get what you give" in a relationship and am looking for someone who believes in give and take. Relationships take a lot of work and I'm not looking for slackers in that category. I want to be someone main priority (after children of course) and for someone who wants to be mine. I am a very "hands-on" kind of person and want someone who can handle that. By that I mean when I like someone they KNOW IT!! . I am VERY expressive in that regard. So super shy people probably would find me to be too much. I am sort of shy but I have found that usually it is only with people that are not in the romantic arena. If I like you, I am not shy.

I like to take walks in my neighborhood in the evenings to relax unwind and get some exercise, curling up on the couch and cuddling while watching the news, pretty much anything to spend time together. . I love going to blazer games, football games, etc. Want to learn to play pool but haven't found a partner yet that can teach me. Any good teachers out there?

If you think we might get along....Send me a message.