I'm a person who loves to laugh and have fun. Life is short. Morals are high on my list. God is a major part of my life. I don't believe in one night stands or just having a bed-partner. I want someone who is able to communicate with me. Share even the little things that are important. I believe in giving and not just taking, so this time I will definitely find someone who just doesn't think about himself. As I said I'm looking for my best friend. You've got to be connected spiritually, mentally, and physically. I believe you should be able to share everything in life with that special soulmate. It doesn't matter if it's cooking, working on a car, or even building a house. I do hope he'll enjoy cooking. LOL Things or circumstances in life changes us. Some are good if you let it or it can damage our personality traits. It's up to us as to the type of person we will become. We all have faults. Finding someone to help us through is the tough part.