I'm 47, divorced and still young at heart. I need a man who's both my best friend and lover. This'll take time, but it's worth it. Don't want anyone who's in a relationship or looking for something on the side. My friends are either married and stuck in a rut, have younger children who take up their energy, or work a different schedule than I do. So I want someone to spend time with, laugh with and have a good time with, whatever we do. I remember what love is and I need a man who knows how to respect and appreciate that.I miss being in love and have so much of it to give.I've been through some hard times and been treated pretty badly, but was and still am a good person and don't hold a grudge for long. It's time for me to be treated like I deserve-well.There are so many things I'd like to do, but haven't.I'm a tan, blue-eyed brunette, a little chubbier than I'd like, but I'm working on it. I'm physically attracted to taller men, with their own hair (as funny as that sounds),a nice mouth, a deep voice and strong hands. I'm loyal and expect the same.