I'm currently married and not in a very good relationship with my wife. We've been having difficulties for years and we both have seeked guidance.

I Live in Bucks County and work in sales in the South Jersey area for a very large company. I was a musician for many years playing the Trumpet in a symphony orchestra. I studied music at Peabody Conservatory in Baltimore. I have moved on from music but I still enjoy classical, oldies, Jazz and even Disco! I enjoy jogging, biking, the arts, movies, beach, nature trails, scenic drives and ice cream.

For many many years I have felt that my relationship with my wife is not one of true commitment or bonding to one another. I have worked so hard for many years to provide a nice home and comfortable environment that my wife just makes me feel that this is my job. This is what I'm suppose to be doing for family.

This is true except for one thing. When I come home, one should have the feeling of warmth, contentment, pride. There is nothing like the feeling of a hug where one can wrap there arms around each other, give a little squeeze, reach out and hold hands and look into each others eyes. The feeling of Love and and understanding, trust and true friendship. That comfy cozy nice feeling we all need to feel inside.

For years I just don't feel she gives all of her to me. I'm not talking about sex but just the feeling that she needs or desires me. Speaking of sex, this has NEVER been a need for her. She just for some reason does not desire it. When we 1st started dating and then got married, sex seemed like a service to me. She did it knowing I needed it and had desire. Sex is more then desire. It is of true love and compassion to one another, I've NEVER had this.

I have felt so empty and lost for so long. What I seek is someone who is currently married or divorced or a special person who wants to share her feelings and wants to be held,touched, hugged. To see a smile. To feel needed and wanted. I want to be your friend. A TRUE friend. I am honest, sincere, and do not play mind games.

I just want to be felt like any man or woman would want. To feel whole,Bonded and be loved. This is what I seek.

And you?

If interested, I can e-mail you more pictures of myself.I must be discreet. This is why I can not post more pictures.

I also use "Yahoo Messenger" (great program.Highly suggest downloading) for im chat and live video. My Yahoo ID to connect or contact me is: GloatingTitan

PS: MUST BE NON-SMOKER!!!