Im self employed and getting out to meet other singles can be difficult most of the time. The internet is a fantasyland where some people seem to try and be something they are not. Well, I am just choosing to be myself on here. I'm attractive, but I'm not arrogant enough to believe that I am the most attractive thing out there. I believe that my best qualities are my ambition, perseverance, honesty, compassion, sincerity and my unwillingness to conform to a society that wants to define and shape me. I guess you could say I'm a self aware man. lol The words on my profile are my own words and not words that I got from a song or something I read somewhere. I believe that true self expression comes in your own words. Its kinda funny that you can get on a site and have people rate you at all. I always thought beauty was subjective - Translation (beauty is in the eye of the beholder). I am interested in what a person is about from the inside/out. I mean physical attraction plays a part, how much is the question you have to answer for yourself. I have had too many women that seem to be looks and NO substance. Some people's only ambition is to be attractive, thats where their upward mobility and progress ends. lol Kinda crazy isn't it? My Comments are not to judge, but to inspire individuality in the hopes that people can quit trying to fit that same old carbon copy of a person. If what I have written sparks any kind of interest, maybe we can talk. Hit me up.