My name is Tammy. I'm 40, separated, a BBW (working on changing that a bit), have 3 kids ages 11, 7, 6. Live in a small town in Colorado. Not really into one night stands...the friendship is important too. If you can't get over your ex or if you are married and will feel guilty, please don't contact me. If you aren't attracted to me, don't contact me. If you are older and can't get it up or keep it up, please pass me by. I know that sounds shallow, but neither one of us need the humiliation of that. Want to know anything, just ask.:)