Chemistry is easy, it's all the other factors that come into play that make finding that certain someone difficult. I would like to meet someone who is at the same stage in life that I am. Also, I would like to find someone who is serious about their career. I prefer businessmen and I'm not into cowboys. Good conversation is key. I prefer to date men who do not want anymore children. I have one son who is with his father every other weekend, so he is with me the majority of the time. Our weekly routine is very busy hence getting on this site