Hey guys….
You know I have been doing this internet thing for a while now and I have had hundreds of response and I have met all of 2 men in person so far… and I find that the men that send me smiles and emails do not read my profile carefully and I also find that I am not being specific enough. So I will try it this way… First what I do not like and am not interested in….. If any of this describes you, then you may as well close my profile right now….. 
NO NO’S
1. Over weight- because unfortunately I am not at the least attracted to overweight men... and my definition of overweight is a man that has a “pregnant belly” or a man with more than one chin.
2. Drinkers & Smokers- if you even drink “occasionally or casually” I am not interested. And it goes without saying that I am not interested in anyone that does drugs.
3. Non- Drivers- I own 2 cars and am not interested in someone that does not own his own car. No matter the circumstances!
4. Homeless- If you do not live alone please do not hit me up…. I am not interested in hosting all the time and I am not interested in those who are looking for a place to stay! If you live with your mom or any other family that are not considered a room mate then you are homeless! Room mates are ok though. :-)
5. Jobless- I don’t care if you only work at McDonalds….. If you do not work then I can’t deal with you on any level.
6. Baby Momma Drama- Unfortunately I really am not interested in men with children under the age of 10 yrs old…… You see I am a “Baby Momma” so I know how sticky situations can get when there are small children involved. So to all of you new daddy’s… No Thanks! Now that my babies are all grown up I love not having the drama and I don’t want to enter into someone else’s drama.
7. Old heads- Sorry older men… I have a dad and I am not interested in a relationship with him or anyone in his age group… My dad is 58 years old and if he is not old enough to be your dad then please move to the next chick.
8. Non-Resident Aliens- All of you scammers that see my pic and think because I am Thick, I am desperate or stupid. Keep it moving! I am not interested in helping you get into my country not on my dollar of yours! So don’t waste your tragic story on me.
9. Yuck Mouth- Believe it or not I must mention this….If you are missing teeth and/ or have rotten teeth….Please do not waste my time!

Things That I am looking forward to

1. Athletic Build Bodies- I am a thick girl and I love athletic men that can show me a thing or two… I try to work out regularly and I am trying to reduce some, so it would be great if I can date someone who can teach me, help me and support my venture.
2. Goal oriented- I find that men with goals, dreams and aspirations are more motivated and energetic. And that’s a turn on for me.
3. Honesty- Doing this for a while I find that most men on the internet lie A LOT….. I feel if you must lie then you must are inadequate in some way or another… or at least that’s what you think of yourself. Because if you do not lie then you must be the person that you want to be.
4. Youthful Looking- Normally younger guys come on to me when I am out on the street. People tell me that I do not look 36 years old and that may be the case… But I also find that I am attracted you youthful looking men…. Let’s get this straight I don’t mean I like little boys and I don’t even like men that are too much younger than me, because I find their maturity level disruptive and a turn off. But if you look younger than you are then I know that you have taken care of yourself and you body. The same goes for the balding men…… Not really attracted to the bald guy… I mean the ones that are force to go bald because of a receding hairline. But I do find those that choose to be bald very sexy! As long as you have the face to support it  LOL
5. Local- I have gotten a lot of response from men from different states, and countries… and I thank all of you for your interest, But I am interested in someone I can touch within a two hour window. I am looking for someone I can date and maybe grow a relationship with, I am a hands on person and am not interested in internet dates, cyber s**, or a pen pal/email/chat pal. If I can’t get to you or vice versa within 2 hour drive then I am not interested in you hitting me up.